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2023.03.29 06:41 natedawwwg Kings mppt solar regular - can it install in engine bay?
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All articles say to install close to the battery , mine is a lead acid in the engine bay
2023.03.29 06:41 Zacrozanct 24/M - Let’s be depression buddies?
Hello, all! I’m an American guy who has been struggling with depression and anxiety for over 5 years now. I’ve been able to live with it, but still, it’s hard. So, I wanted to try something. I want to look for other people living with depression and/or anxiety and make connections. I know all too well that sometimes it’s hard to work up the motivation to do even the simplest things. So maybe we can be something like accountability buddies! We can encourage and hype each other up, congratulate each other on doing little things that make a positive difference, and listen to one another when a listening ear is needed.
This isn’t to say that I want to be anybody’s therapist, or want someone to be mine. What I, and many other depressed people, want is a genuine friendship like anyone else might have. Unfortunately, there is still a stigma against us, which causes some people to go running scared when they find out you have mental health struggles. So, I’d like to get that out of the way right off the bat, so we can bond over other things. Oh, and by the way, some of the things I’m interested in include reading, movies, series, Youtube, history, political science, psychology, meditation, and 3am deep talks. You don’t have to share all my nerdy interests, and I’d love to hear about yours. If you are interested, feel free to reach out, and we can talk and hopefully build a long-lasting friendship.
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2023.03.29 06:41 HydroSeaworthy445 The Realization That I’ll Belong Here Soon
To be honest, before making my other posts here I used to be a lurker. I used to compare my problems to the posts here as an evil way for a confidence boost, to show myself that my problems wasn’t as bad as the people’s here, therefore I shouldn’t be depressed. But lately realization was starting to hit me. My problems might not be as bad as your guys but I have been falling deeper in the hole.
I used to be a good student. By no means was I a genius, I was your 3.8 student who gave effort but wasn’t perfect. I was in a few extracurriculars, that’s just about it. But lately I’ve been drifting away. I stopped trying. My other problems that I won’t list but you could probably find out from my post history started to overwhelm me. I stopped trying in classes. I quit all of my sports and clubs midway through the school. I had no ambition, so I abandoned my dreams of going to my chosen college and decided to go with community college and altogether gave up on scholarships. I even turned to some of my classmates for drugs, I haven’t taken them yet but I will soon.
It’s funny because I sorta(?) looked down upon you guys but now I’m probably soon to be one of those frequent posters here that get worse. My problem wasn’t as bad as yours, they might still not be. My favorite artist is “The Weeknd”, very emotional and awesome music about sex and drugs. Whenever I listened to him I would immerse myself into his music and just be in these types of scenarios. As I reflect I can see myself start to relate more to him than I ever did (MINUS the girls lol, that’ll never happen) I’ll look into drugs and lose my faith.
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2023.03.29 06:41 Mr-_Morningstar-_ Why the people of Karnataka are so obsessed with language?
Hello amazing people of banglore how are you doing?
my sister was on a trip with her friends(Girls) Visiting Banglore as a Tourist she Came back 2 days ago and Told me a Incident that really freaked me out
So my sister and one of her friend were traveling in a Rikshaw talking amongst themselves in Hindi and Suddenly the Rikshaw driver tells Cuts them off B/w there Conversation and asked them to Talk in Local Language They told him that they cannot talk in local language as they are tourists and Know Nothing about local language and the Rikshaw Driver suddenly tells them to Learn the local language if they want to visit Karnataka She tells him that "they are only visiting for a few days so they didn't find the need to Learn kannada as most of the people can understand Both Hindi and English" and this statement somehow triggered that rikshaw driver and He tells them In hindi " Ye tumhara zameen Nahi Hai ye mera zameen hai idhar akar ke tumko mera rules follow karna padega " (This is not your land This is my land and you will have to follow my rules when you are here) in a shouting tone. After that they just sat quietly for the whole trip and felt really Uncomfortable. Driver even overcharged them after dropping them to there destination
So i really want to know Why people in Karnataka are so obsessed with Language to a point where they don't even realise that they are Harassing someone ?
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2023.03.29 06:41 Concernedmicrowave I'm having issues with my solid works install. I'm trying to install a student license on my personal computer. It keeps asking for an SNL server, which it can't find. After I click through this, it goes to the download page but it doesn't complete the download, just gets stuck.
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2023.03.29 06:41 shurtugal69420 I find my therapist attractive and have had sexual thoughts about her, should I find a new one?
Also, if I do look for a new one, should I tell my current one why?
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2023.03.29 06:41 Humble-Dingo-4787 Harvard MD-PhD (+debt) vs Hopkins MSTP vs U Wash MSTP - See post for pro/con
Career goals - practice in oncology space (I.e. rad onc, heme/onc, maybe pediatric onc, surgical onc, etc) and run a cancer biology lab based on some basic science field (probably genomics / epigenomics). Academia
Harvard Pro: 1. Name recognition - I’m a simp. Also could help with prestigious research awards (non NIH) 2. Boston - love the city and integration with tech. Don’t aspire to work in industry, but would like collaborations. Really want to live in a big/wealthy city. 3. Associations w Dana Farber 4. Already have some personal mentors that are medical faculty here. Have some internal support on certain things that I wouldn’t find elsewhere likely (intentionally vague) 5. Would love to stay for residency / post doc
Con: 1. ~200k for first 2 years of med school. Remainder is almost always covered for affiliates. 2. Feels a bit like I’m being treated as a second rate MD PHD student, despite student’s insistence they don’t feel this way as affiliates 3. Dorm style living for >=1 year 4. Everyone I know personally there is great, but 75% of my interviewers were truly awful 5. Whole school is spread over so many institutions. I thrive with tight knit community
Hopkins Pro: 1. Name recognition still solid 2. Could afford to buy or rent a nice apartment 3. Fully funded 4. Amazing medical experiences 5. Smaller, integrated campus 6. Seemed nicer and more approachable than Harvard
Cons: 1. Baltimore - really don’t want to live in poor or dangerous city 2. They aren’t the strongest in cancer bio. Seems dominated by BME. Not greatest research fit. 3. Not as excited about the research there based on website searching of PI
Washington Pro: 1. Seattle is dope. Also tech 2. Both Fred hutch and UW have strongest research fit 3. Know people there 4. Very friendly 5. Potential “in” for residencies in Cali like UCSF or Stanford and onc fellowships at Fred hutch or Cali schools
Cons: 1. Seattle expensive. Rent all 8 yr 2. lower prestige View Poll
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2023.03.29 06:41 UnderwaterSpaghetti I find it weird that Jaghatai Khan doesn't have a vehicle named after him yet despite him being the vehicle guy.
2023.03.29 06:41 funkyduck7506 RHOBH ELIEEN
I know she gets flack for being boring, and she is a little compared to some over the top wives. I’m doing a rewatch and I just do not think this woman is appreciated enough. She is pure camp. I mean that fucking movie?! I was dying and living all at the same time.
For a minute I thought it was just because I was familiar with her growing up with a mom who loved days of our lives, but I can’t stand Rinna and I was just as aware of her at a young age.
Idk I find myself constantly giggling at her. She constantly giving me Kristen Dimera.
Idk maybe it’s the wine hahahaha
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2023.03.29 06:40 Ok-Seaworthiness-913 [Product Question] Nano-Needling Infusions?
I am really surprised by how little information I can find on this topic.
I am still very new to Skincare but from what I've learnt most products can't get through the skin barrier so introducing certain serums like vitamin C with nano needling seems to be a good option, but I really can't find enough resources on this.
Can anyone help me out by linking some good studies/info on if this would be worth incorporating into a routine?
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2023.03.29 06:40 RantControl Follow up to my post about Mad Mex yesterday.
Apparently, this is what Mad Mex is going to be: https://www.downlow.co.nz/restaurants
I couldn't find any info online or a head office number so I called the still open restaurant in Albany, Auckland.
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2023.03.29 06:40 BitchesLoveMeNOT My future feels very doomed
So I am a junior in high school and am struggling to stick with it. My grades are alright, but i’m struggling to get motivated to go to school because i don’t have many friends and i also don’t feel like i’d have a good future career.
I live in a very conservative town and state. Now I’m gay and definitely feel lonely all the damn time. I don’t feel like i’m loveable and i don’t even wanna try LD. I feel like imma be stuck in this town forever, lonely and old.
A big dream of mine was to serve in the military but from the looks of it i won’t be able to serve because of past mental health issues. I’m reading how they are in a recruiting crisis and im upset cause i’d be more than willing to serve but because im human i more than likely won’t be able to. (I know i’m still kinda at a low but not as bad as before.)
If not the military maybe a firefighter or police officer. I just want to help people and show them that there is good in the world and that they aren’t alone even though they may feel like it.
I just don’t know what to do with life and it’s weighing on my every day life now seeing as i’m graduating next year. College seems like it would be hard for me to get into and finding the right degree.
I’m lost and i needed to vent about this, so why not to a bunch of strangers?
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2023.03.29 06:40 LeutnantzurSeeFritz The Exploits of Irving Reese Part 11: Irving's Future
(You can also find this story and the pervious chapters here.
Irving was still recovering from the news that Malcolm gave him. Enterprise learned from Oklahoma, and she was happy for her and Malcolm.
The news spread around the base like wildfire. The shipgirls of the Eagle Union were proud of both Oklahoma and Malcolm.
“Oklahoma told me she thinks she was at least three months pregnant when she found out. She only found out right before her party. Her child will most likely be born in March.”
Irving and Enterprise made sure to not bother Oklahoma and Malcolm, as they were on their honeymoon in the Dragon Empery.
Irving thought about the future. He knew that he and Enterprise had something special. He wanted to start a family with Enterprise. But he wanted to wait until Malcolm and Oklahoma had their child before he could even think about him and Enterprise having children.
Irving then thought to himself. What if he and Enterprise got married? He knew they would have to wait until winter, as they did not want to get married too soon after Malcolm and Oklahoma.
Irving was thinking about these thoughts on the couch. Enterprise could tell that something was troubling Irving.
“Honey. You alright?”
Irving nodded. He knew he could not tell her yet, as he didn’t want to ruin the surprise he had for her.
“Yeah. I’m alright. I was thinking of visiting Samuel and New Jersey.”
Enterprise smiled. She knew Irving was just as excited as she was for Malcolm and Oklahoma’s baby. Irving kissed Enterprise and left to go to Samuel and New Jersey’s dorm. Irving arrived at the door and knocked. New Jersey opened the door and greeted him with a smile.
“What brings you here, Irving?”
“I just wanted to talk to Samuel about something.”
New Jersey nodded as she let Irving inside. Samuel was sitting on the couch watching some football on TV.
“What brings you here?”
“Ok, so say I was to propose to someone. How would I do it?”
Samuel smiled. He had a feeling that Irving was thinking of proposing to Enterprise. However, he could not help him with his question.
“I cannot tell you how to do that, Irving, but I know someone who can.”
Samuel whispered the person’s name in his ear. Irving grinned and nodded. He knew who Samuel was referring to.
“Thanks, Sammy. You were a lot of help.”
Samuel nodded, and Irving left.
Irving found himself in the Ironblood part of the base. He went to Tirpitz and Fritz’s home.
He rang the doorbell. A boy opened the door. Irving knew the boy was Fritz and Tirpitz’s eldest son, Moritz.
“What brings you here, Herr Reese?”
“I’m here to talk to your mom and dad. Can you get them for me?”
Moritz closed the door and went to get his mother and father.
Soon, Fritz was at the door.
“What do you need, Irving?”
“I’m here to talk to you and Tirpitz. It’s about me and Enterprise.”
Fritz opened the door fully to let Irving inside.
“Children, go outside and play. Mutti and Vati have to talk to Herr Reese.”
“So, what did you want to talk about?”
“I want to propose to Enterprise. How should I do it?”
Fritz and Tirpitz smiled at each other. They knew Irving had found the person for him.
“If I were you, I would take it nice and slow. Tirpitz was pregnant with Moritz when she married me, and she told me on our wedding night.”
“Would January or February be a great time to have a wedding?”
Fritz and Tirpitz smiled at each other, but they asked Irving a simple question.
“Do you have a ring?”
Irving shook his head. He felt stupid. He had all these plans. To get married, and start a family, and he didn’t even have a ring for Enterprise.
Tirpitz looked at Irving.
“Do you even have a location in mind? I proposed to Fritz in the Tiergarten, and Heinz proposed to Bismarck during an Ironblood ball.”
“I was thinking I would propose to her in her room after we danced by ourselves.”
Fritz and Tirpitz nodded at each other. They knew that Enterprise would like to save the more public part of the wedding for the wedding itself.
Irving thought long and hard. He knew that he would have to get a ring for Enterprise and find the perfect moment to propose.
He figured that the wisest move would be to get the ring first.
“After all, it would be strange to propose without a ring.” Irving thought to himself.
“Thank you for the chat, you two.”
He was now a man on a mission.
Irving made his way to Akashi’s store. She stocked the store to the brim with everything the base needed. Akashi grinned with excitement at the sight of Irving in her store.
“Hello again, Irving! What can I do you for?”
Irving whispered into Akashi’s ear.
“I need to buy a wedding ring. I’m planning on proposing to Enterprise.”
Akashi and Irving made their way to the backrooms of Akashi’s store.
“What kind of gemstone do you want?”
Irving thought long and hard. He decided he would do what Malcolm did and make the engagement ring her launch day’s birthstone.
“A ring with an opal and tourmaline on it.”
Akashi nodded and asked Irving another question.
“What kind of metal?”
Irving froze. He did not know what metal Enterprise would like.
Would she like gold? Or was she more of a platinum or titanium girl?
Irving shook his head.
He figured he would get the same medal that Malcolm used.
Akashi nodded and gave him a box containing a gold ring with two gemstones, an opal, and a tourmaline on it.
Irving froze when he thought of how much the ring was going to cost him.
“What is your yearly salary, Irving? I know you have some money saved up.”.
Irving gave Akashi his salary.
“Because you are a loyal customer of Akashi, I’m only going to charge you half of what I was going to charge. Don’t let it go to your head.” Akashi told Irving with a devious smile on her face.
“Well then, how much is it then?”
Akashi laughed deviously.
“Around 20,000 in coins.”
Irving’s eyes went wide. That was almost a year’s worth of his salary. He would need to cash in his savings just to break even. Irving nodded and paid for the ring. He put the box in his pocket. Now he had to set a perfect mood.
“Do you have any old seventy-eight RPM records, Akashi?”
Akashi pulled out a milk crate full of records.
Irving looked through them. He knew he and Enterprise both liked jazz.
He found two that he knew he and Enterprise would love to dance to. They were “Moonlight Serenade” by Glenn Miller and “It’s been a Long, Long Time.” by Harry James and His Orchestra. He paid for the records and made his way to Enterprise’s room.
He saw Enterprise relaxing on the couch. He placed his hand on her shoulder to wake her up.
Enterprise slowly opened her eyes and saw Irving looking at her with a smile on his face, holding a bag of records in his hand.
“Hey, do you want to dance with me? I got some new records from Akashi.”
Enterprise got off the couch and embraced Irving.
Irving placed a record on the turntable.
The sounds of “Moonlight Serenade” filled the room as Enterprise and Irving danced.
Irving and Enterprise closed their eyes as they slow-danced to the music. Irving felt her body against his. He smiled.
“I’m surprised that you know how to dance, Enty.”
“Of course, I know how to dance. I’m more surprised that you know how to dance than anything.”
Once the record was done, Irving changed the record to the other song that he bought.
The trumpet of “It’s been a Long Long Time” filled the room. The notes flew through the room like velvet.
As the music ended, Irving and Enterprise kissed each other.
Irving knew he had found the perfect song to propose to her.
He just needed a perfect time.
A couple of weeks later, Malcolm and Oklahoma were home from their honeymoon.
Irving decided he would tell Malcolm about his plans to propose to Enterprise.
Malcolm could not believe it. First, he gets married, and finds out he’s a father, and now Irving wants to get married to Enterprise.
Malcolm knew that Irving and Enterprise would get married eventually. Malcolm was proud of his friend for getting a ring.
Irving showed Malcolm the ring.
“I plan on playing Moonlight Serenade while we are dancing. After the song ends, I’ll pop the question. If she says yes, we’ll dance to "It's Been a Long, Long, Time.”
Malcolm nodded, as he knew it was a brilliant plan.
“How was your honeymoon, Malcolm?”
“I mean, Oklahoma was sick as a dog the whole time. But the Dragon Empery was beautiful, especially at night. Harbin owns a restaurant there. The crab Rangoon she made was one of the best things I have ever eaten.”
Suddenly, Malcolm heard Oklahoma vomiting from the bathroom. She was suffering from morning sickness. She had been suffering from it during their honeymoon.
“Malcolm, come here!”
Malcolm knew Oklahoma needed him, as he would hold her hair and rub her back while she was vomiting.
Before Malcolm left to help Oklahoma, he asked Irving a question.
“When’s the wedding?”
“It will be in early February.”
“Jeez. I hope Okie will be able to go. She’ll be far into her pregnancy when you guys get married.”
With Malcolm knowing of the plan. Irving went on his phone.
“Excuse me, can I book a reservation for a week from now, under Mr. Reese?”
Irving nodded. He made sure to book a reservation at a fancy restaurant on base.
Irving made his way to Enterprise’s room and slept next to her.
A week had passed, and he knew that today was the day that he would propose to Enterprise.
He knew that today was her day off, and he took her out on a date.
The couple made it to the fancy restaurant. The couple got some wine and steak. The couple was having a great time.
“I’m glad we can be more of a couple, now that you have been discharged.”
The couple walked to the dorms after they finished eating. The cool October air only added to their romantic walk.
The couple made it to Enterprise’s room. Irving put on, “Moonlight Serenade.” The couple slowly danced, with Enterprise and Irving embracing. The music filled the room and made them feel frozen in time.
Once the song ended, Irving knew that it that was his cue. Irving talked to Enterprise.
“Enterprise, there’s something I’ve been wanting to ask you.”
He had his hand in his pocket, reaching for the box.
Enterprise nodded. She saw Irving getting down on one knee.
“Enterprise. You have made me the happiest man alive. I want to ask you a single question.”
He was trying to keep himself from choking on his words. He reached for the box in his pocket. His hands were shaking slightly.
Enterprise cried tears of joy. She knew Irving was only asking one question in this context.
Irving pulled the box out of his pocket and opened it, revealing the ring inside.
“Enterprise. Will you marry me?”
Enterprise responded with an embrace and a kiss as she placed the ring on her finger.
“Yes. I will become your wife. I love you.”
She had tears of joy rolling down her face.
Irving changed the record on the record player to “It’s been a Long Long Time.”
The couple danced. They knew they were perfect for each other.
Soon, the couple slept together. They knew they were no longer boyfriend and girlfriend. They were soon-to-be husband and wife.
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2023.03.29 06:40 contractor_hell [Help] Accepted a lowball contract by a disgruntled employee (unbeknownst to me), and I think I'm in a very unique legal area and very worried.
I'm going to get called the biggest dumb*ss in this sub, but I'm really looking for help here.
A company in my area - with 20 years in the business, with stellar reviews, and used by multiple coworkers - was 1 of 3 I got quotes from for a really thorough bathroom remodel. Not only were they the cheapest by 5 digits, they could start the soonest. When I asked why it was at that price, their person told me it was because they had a 3 week gap starting in 10 days and he needed to fill it to put his crew to work. He drew up a contract, and told me to pay half. It sounded too good to be true, but (here's the first what the hell were you thinking) I wrote a check for half because I knew the company was legit and had seen the work, but the guy told me he'd print the contract and bring it by since I didn't have a printer there. The check was made out to the company, so I made the choice that it would be fine. Cashed next day of course.
So all materials are purchased and included by them in the contract, and he orders everything. Custom shower door, bathtub, tiles, everything. Very responsive about order dates on individual things. He even lets me see it at the warehouse. Those materials cost more than my deposit, easy, so I'm still shocked. At this point, we're 4 days from starting and it seems great, literally too good to be true.
Three days leading up, the guy stops responding. Really odd as I'm trying to find out when he's showing up, but no response. At 9am sharp on first day scheduled, the owner of the company shows with the contract printed (not signed) and says the original guy is no longer with the company, but he will take care of us and honor the contract although it's way too low. We run through the contract verbally, he tells us he has the materials, and claims they'll knock it out. They immediately on day 1 demo the hell out of our bathroom. Shower; tub, knocking down closet wall to expand bathroom size. No going back immediately. So here I am in week 2, the tiling is going up on shower, crew is framing the large tub, the walls are being patched, accessories installed.
My question - what happens at the end? I think the owner believes I have a signed contract from this employee no longer there, but I've never signed anything and it happened so fast. Everyone has been very nice to me since day 1, owner and crew very responsive each day. Will I just cut final check and say thank you we love it, and that's that?
What happens if the owner finds out we have no signed contract (and what do I say if he asks me to present it?) and what are his options? Project will wrap up by this Friday, on schedule. Do I just pray I get out of this without anyone ever knowing the full story?
Thanks for any help 😬
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2023.03.29 06:40 WLMammoth Dungeon Squad Wiki on Miraheze
I searched for a wiki for the game and couldn't find one, so I've started building one out on Mirahaze. It's just started, so it needs a lot of work and contributors are very welcome! https://dungeonsquad.miraheze.org/wiki
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2023.03.29 06:40 OldVintage1 Pissed customer
I just got an irate email from a customer. She bought three large bars of soap. On the photo I do have a photo with three bars stacked, like I do on many listings. She thought she was getting 9 bars. That each order was three bars. I’ve been selling these for years and no one has ever thought that it was for three bars (I’d be losing boatloads of money if that price were for three.) No one has thought this about any of my other items that have a “pile” photograph. She sent them as a gift and I find it strange she would send a friend 9 bars of soap. Thoughts? Also, I know if someone buys two different items they can leave two different reviews. But can this person leave three different reviews for a quantity of three of the same? Thanks!
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2023.03.29 06:39 Cool_Dragonfruit_542 "What is now book and child used to be toy and knight" lol
2023.03.29 06:39 ConstantCollar2795 Trying to figure out my safest escape plan/support and validation needed
I’m in a toxic relationship with someone I’ve been dating for about two years.
It was a rough start, I moved straight out of a toxic household and he had just gotten out of prison about one year before. We were living with his friends and the vibe was weird af. They became hostile towards us and it caused a lot of tension and confusion. My memory of that time is foggy but we both hurt eachother. We considered separating when the lease was up, but we talked and decided to give it a go because neither of us had the chance to really focus on ourselves/building a relationship because of all the toxic drama.
Fast forward, we moved in on the lease together(me as a co-signer) and are now about halfway thru the lease. I have been consistently going to therapy and doing everything I can to be a good partner, but it feels like the better I get the worse he becomes. He has told me therapy doesn’t work for him and I respect that, he said he has his own ways of dealing with stuff so I let it go and trusted his word. I regret it now. My life has been falling apart as well as my mental health. He tells me that “all I do is cause problems” for him, and that I’m an unsupportive and selfish partner. Whenever I try to tell him how I feel he reacts with anger, gets defensive, gaslights me, or downplays my emotions by comparing them to his (worser) struggles. I lost my job due to the stress of it all. My body felt miserable my mind always foggy and I couldn’t figure out why. Since I lost my job I’ve kind of hit rock bottom and realized just how awful he really is to me. I know that leaving him is the only way I can find happiness in my life again. I feel guilty because I’ve done some really toxic things before we moved in together here. I was out of therapy for a while and I became suicidal and started self harming. I used to bang my head on the wall and have rage fits that I couldn’t control. I even told him once that if he left me I might kill myself. Later I called my therapist balling my eyes out about it because I felt so bad. I apologized and went back to therapy regularly and have since progressed exponentially, and for the most part don’t physically harm myself anymore.
My partner pretends like he never said or did anything wrong whenever I bring up how his words or actions made me feel. Occasionally he will acknowledge a broken promise and tell me that he will change or help me but never does. I almost feel like now maybe his intentions were off from the start. He always accuses me of cheating or being disloyal or financially selfish, even though I have done nothing wrong.
I know I should leave him for my own sake. But I worry about what will happen to him when I break the lease. He has been through quite a lot of trauma and it’s hard to tell if his abusive patterns are intentional. I feel bad for leaving him with all of these bills knowing that he might get evicted or worse. Not to mention we have three animals that I fully take care of and have been struggling to find homes for.
I know I will be okay and I have a plan for leaving. But there’s just a little voice in the back of my head saying that I’m being selfish, and I should stick out the lease. I’m worried he might stalk me as well, he knows I would go to my parents house because it’s my only choice, and I’d be staying in a shed (no animals allowed)that he could try to break into at night. I’m half guilty, half scared for my own well-being, but mostly I’m exhausted from living with him and dealing with constant emotional abuse. I’m also worried that it may turn physical the minute I rehome our dog. He protects me when my partner gets aggressive, but before we got him he would punch holes in the wall and threaten me. I feel like I have to leave asap but I don’t know if I should wait it out or send it as soon as I get the opportunity. Realistically saving money to get my own place in secret might be really hard anyways because this man is psycho level invasive and gambles/throws his money away to the point where I barely have enough to cover basic needs with my checks. He already gets upset with me because I told him I didn’t want to move to a different state with him at the end of our lease and I know he can sense I’m starting to get less reactive to his tactics. It will be really hard to leave early without him finding out/trying to sabotage me, but I have a couple friends that have offered to help and if I time it right it might just work. I feel awful for doing him like that but I have to show him the consequences of his abusive behavior and more importantly save my own ass. I just need some validation and support right now because my guilt and fear that I’m not strong enough is the hardest thing to break. If
u got this far thanks for reading, I know that was long as fuck but I already feel better just typing it all out.<3
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2023.03.29 06:39 atleasturnotboring This show reconciled me with M Night
I usually hate most of his stuff (Old, Split, the visit, etc) and find them way too disturbing and poorly written to watch, but this show was incredible. I watched it for the first time this week and just finished it.
I refused to dive into the hype when it came out because I was a M Night hater lol, but I found this show to be hilarious, touching and beautiful. I know some people are upset about the finale, but as someone who didn’t have to wait for years for it, I’m very satisfied. I wish I could’ve experienced it all in time with everyone here over the years!
The comic relief in this is exquisite, I loved every awkward interaction with Leanne, this cast is perfection and binds so well together. All the characters are hilarious and I’ve grown really attached to them, and I’m so sad to have to let them go.
I’m very disappointed in the fact that there isn’t a blooper reel, it would’ve been hilarious
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