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I wish my mom would just stay in jail

2023.06.08 08:08 JackFrostsKid I wish my mom would just stay in jail

I feel bad even thinking that, but it’s true. In just under a month, I’ve come to realize just how much stress she actually brings me, and how much trauma I’m constantly reliving because of her actions. Not only that, but I think having been in jail may have actually been somewhat helpful to her mental state.
I won’t get into all of the details, but a short history of our relationship is as follows:
She started using meth quite regularly years before I was born, and although she stayed sober while pregnant, it colors our relationship to this day. At age 6 she was charged with the neglect and abuse, of my brother and I. We would from that moment on, live with her mom (my grandma). At age 8 she came to grandma’s house and threatened to kill her, and kidnap my brother and I. She’d be arrested, but no charges were brought against her. From then until age 12 we’d see her sporadically for supervised visits, many of which she didn’t attend. When I turned 14 she started suffering from meth psychosis , one of the main symptoms of long term meth use. Because she was less grounded in reality, she was much more dangerous to be around. While she had never actually attacked, only threatened to do so, in the past, she became much more ready to fight anyone, including Grandma, my brother and I. For safety reasons, a protection order was granted, and we cut all contact with her. I still have nightmares about some of the things she threatened to do to me. When I was 16 (2020) I got a call from CPS stating that my little sister had been found with my mom in the middle of the road, starving and surrounded by needles. Up until that point, I didn’t know I had a sister. She was 2 weeks old then. I was given temporary guardianship over her, and eventually, my aunt would legally adopt her. I ended up missing a lot of school to get my sister to doctors appointments, court hearings and CPS visits. I very nearly dropped out if I’m being honest.
Now I’m 19, and in college, although; I’m home for the summer. Twice now, she’s shown up at our house unannounced, with a stolen car. The first time, it took police 5 hours to get to the house and arrest her. While she wasn’t acting violently, she wasn’t all there, and was yelling at me for killing her daughter (I think she was referring to my sister) and stealing something to the tune of $800,000 from her. When police finally arrived, meth was discovered on her person, and it was revealed that she was driving a stolen car without a license.
She spent a little less than a month in jail, during which I called her somewhat regularly. For the first time in my life, I knew where she was, and that she had a roof over her head, and food. She was given medication to help manage the hallucinations, and overall, seemed ok She very much was not happy, but she was the safest she had been in a long time.
Today she appeared at the house again. She spent some moments in reality, and others very much not so. She switched from yelling at invisible voices, to yelling at me for pimping her out, stealing money or killing/selling into sexual slavery my sister, to telling me she loves and misses me. It was frankly exhausting. When I called the police, I was informed that they would not be coming again. She had hitchhiked, so there was no stolen car, she was threatening me, and apparently my restraining order had expired when she was in jail. No crimes had been committed.
It took a long time, but eventually we convinced her to go back to the city. My brother and I drove her to the nearest train station and bought her a ticket. She asked that we print out a picture of my brother, my sister and I, before she left, which we obliged. It breaks my heart to send her down there knowing she has nowhere to go, but I don’t know what else to do. We’ve put her through rehab multiple times, grandma used to pay her rent so she wouldn’t be homeless so long as she stayed of meth, we’ve all offered her jobs, and to pay for therapy. Nothing has worked.
If she were in the right mind, she wouldn’t be a danger to us. We are no longer reliant on her. I know that she loves my brother and I and her whole family, but she’s at the point where she’s absolutely convinced that we’re out to get her, and that she must retaliate with any means available to her.
At least when she was in jail, I could still contact her safely. She was detoxing, and more often than not grounded in reality.I could hold a full conversation with her for the first time in years. I knew she was being fed, and that she was at least somewhat safe. It feels mean, but I really just wish that she would just stay in jail.
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2023.06.08 08:04 Spirited-Major8992 My ex got black out drunk and had sex with another man and doesn’t remember

My ex girl friend went out with some new coworkers and she went and got drunk when we specifically set boundaries to not drink because we don’t do it and she wouldn’t drink much at all. Anyways she went and got black out drunk and had sex with another man but doesn’t remember what happened or who did it. I found out because she was texting her coworker that she wanted to see him and she had a great time and etc. when confronted, she said she doesn’t remember and she doesn’t want to find out either. She told me that someone took advantage of her and she still continues to work there. She said she felt an obligation to text her coworker all the messages I found. It’s unbelievable. How do you feel obligated to text someone you barely met. I’m devastated. I forgave her and I believed her but in the end she distanced her by telling me something is missing in out relationship and I stopped making the effort to spend time with her and I stopped doing the little things. I don’t understand man. The effort didn’t stop. It just slowed down. Because everything was piling on and on. We lived together and I was paying for everything, the last few months of my relationship yes I did lack the effort but I was paying rent and all our bills and even some of her bills. I lacked because everything was getting stressful I would would work 12-16 hour days and be genuinely tired and I just wanted to sleep or play video games just to escape all the stress to build up.
She wouldn’t hold a job and the stress kept building. I told her I would pay for everything until she got a decent job because she wanted to help. She would get a job and once she disliked, she would hop to another one. I didn’t want her to tolerate my lack of effort but just to understand it. But ultimately she ended up leaving and saying I took her for granted and I didn’t prioritize her. In all honesty I tossed my needs out the window just to get us by. I never expected anything from her. So why distance herself when she did this to me? In the end it feels like I’m at fault. I can honestly say I never treated her like crap. I was there for her emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. Did i make mistakes, yea sometimes I would say something outta line but never to hurt her feelings. I trusted her 100%. I was never toxic. It seemed like a healthy relationship. I tried to fight for our relationships. As much as a fool I was, my heart still yearns for her but I know she’s not coming back. Towards a the end, instead of trying to make her take accountability, she kept throwing my lack of effort in my face. It wasn’t on purpose. I was lost in all the stress and there were many times where she wouldn’t do anything and I would feel unhappy and unappreciated but I never gave up on her. I know everyone get in a rut sometimes even in relationships.
I don’t understand. It feels like my fault and I lost this girl. I’d like some insight from anyone.
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2023.06.08 07:58 fearlessglitter13 I fell in love with a chaotic girl then she broke up with me

I’m a girl and have been dating a girl who is diagnosed with bipolar. We’re both the same age 25 but I’m in a much better place than her in life. I have a master's degree, a good job, and live in my apartment in a nice area. While she just started online university, lives with her friend rent free, parties every weekend, her parents pay for her, and she recently quit her job.
I am more successful than her but it didn’t matter to me because I care more about our connection and felt like she’s passionate about her future goals. One thing that bothered me was she never wanted me to pay for anything, I told her I want to take her on the next date and she insisted on paying for it. She then asked her dad to pay for the next date which is ridiculous because I could easily afford it.
Eventually, I found out she cheats on her exams so that was disappointing. When she came to my apartment for the first time, she asked me how am I affording it and I said “I work” She then said “oh so I’m paying for our dates and you’re paying for rent” I felt that it made her uncomfortable. She was being affectionate and physical for 3 hours straight so I thought everything was good. She got extremely drunk that night.
Then the next day she broke up with me because dating stresses her out and she invited me to go partying with them instead. I’m so frustrated because she didn’t explain what was wrong. Do you think she felt guilty because I’m more successful and she wanted chaos?
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2023.06.08 07:58 iamnotgabi apartment advice

apartment advice
hey everyone. i got my pyr mix (half pyr half rottie) while living in oklahoma, where we have a medium size backyard that he loves but he’s always supervised when he’s outside and is mostly a house dog. my husband and i will be moving to connecticut later this year and unfortunately we simply cannot afford to rent a house in the area we plan to live in or basically anywhere in the state 😅 we have two other dogs (both around 50lbs) who have already lived in apartments before we moved to OK so we know they’ll transition well but i’m worried about my pyr. this apartment complex is very pet friendly, with a dog park across the street and plenty of nearby parks where i could take him on leashed walks. we always take them on nightly walks so he’s good on the leash although a bit reactive to people walking on the street. what are some ways in which i can prepare him or train him before the move? going from a 3 bedroom house with a backyard to a 1 bedroom apartment is gonna be a big change for all of us, but especially for my pyr who is very alert to sounds, other dogs and people. should i work on desensitization and if so how would i about that? i’m overwhelmed with the thought of not being able to give him what he is used to. do any apartment pyr parents have good advice here?
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2023.06.08 07:56 eeedg3ydaddies I don't think I can do this anymore no one can help me

I'm so empty and tired, if there was a way a meteor could come kill me while leaving my pets unharmed I would welcome it.
I moved, got sent to the psych ward, when I got out I was two months rent behind, no one could help me. I tried to go back to work but I was still unwell and I lost job. Now I owe 3000 dollars and am about to get amd I am struggling to get a new job and I am still strgguling with my mental health but now I have no insurance.
I can't even go back to the psych ward bc I DON'T HAVE FUCKING TIME if I go back my financial situation will get worse and what will happen to my pets???? But fuck I can't live like this anymore I can't! I just want to die
I'm trapped in this stupid hole of poverty amd it doesn't matter how hard I work or how much I destroy my body I'll never escape and be comfortable. I'm about to be homeless AGAIN. I can't do this anymore, i don't have anyone except my pets, I just can't take anymore, I don't know what to do anymore. Sorry for typos, crying too hard to see screen clealry.
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2023.06.08 07:47 WhoDrankMyFanta Worth it to rent a 2015 convertible 5.0 Mustang for a week in San Diego for $734?

Visiting San Diego for a week in August. Originally was planning to rent a 2015 Mustang for the entire stay. Went with a convertible to enjoy the sunny weather. Just wondering if you think it would be worth it to add to the experience of the entire vacation. By the way, it’s just my girlfriend and I. Both of us are 30 years old and make decent money.
Don’t know if we’re better off just renting a toyota/hyundai/honda or something similar. This vacation was kind of just thrown together just to do something for the summer. We’re also going to Thailand in January and was thinking maybe it’d be wiser to just save the few hundred dollars and use it towards something else.
What do you guys think?
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2023.06.08 07:46 Crafty-Historian8942 AITA for telling my friend she doesn't need to make today's tragic event about herself when she lives 1,000 miles away?

By now you know about the horrible air pollution in NYC and how it's so bad you can't go outside without extensive protection, can't walk dogs, etc. It's a huge issue and I have nothing but sympathy for those impacted.
I have a friend who was born and raised in rural Wisconsin and moved to NYC for a year. She then moved to Chicago because supposedly her rent would've gone up $500 if she stayed and she didn't like the humidity anyway.
We were talking about the orange skies out there today, and she looked kind of upset. She brought up how her apartment's windows didn't close all the way, so she and her cat, who both have asthma, would've had severe health complications. And she literally said, "Dude. She could've died if I was able to renew my lease. That's so messed up to think about." I told her that she doesn't need to make this whole thing about herself. She said, "Are you serious? That's not what I'm doing." I pointed out that she's done that for a certain other event, too, by cussing people out for making stupid jokes about it. She said she wouldn't be having this conversation with me because I never lived in NYC, let alone visited it, and that I wouldn't understand. I calmly told her, "You lived there for 1 year. New Yorkers don't like when transplants pull that kind of thing. Especially if they only lived there for a year." She said I was making massive leaps, being dramatic, speaking on behalf of others, etc. Eventually she said, "Actually, I'm just gonna block your number because I just realized you've done this bullshit before many times." And she hung up on me.
AITA? Going to point out that she has anxiety and overreacts a lot. And believe it or not, we're both in our 20s.
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2023.06.08 07:42 defqon3 Is there really a rental shortage in Melbourne right now?

I keep hearing all of these rental shortage, people can't find room, everyone's lining up to inspect a rental blablabla...however, I've been advertising my room for nearly a week on and for $300/week in Coburg North, by the tram stop, train station close by, house is spacious, fresh, and generously equipped, presented very well, yet I only have 2 people messaging (which both I am not keen on). I posted the room in various other Facebook groups (Fairy Floss etc) with absolutely no luck at all, literally no one texted me.
I honestly was expecting to get quite a few enquiries considering the hoo haa of current rental shortage, assuming that people would consider looking into sharehouse arrangement when it becomes too competitive/expensive to rent directly from REA. I seriously wonder if this is all just over sensationalism from the media, cos I sure as hell don't see it in reality!
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2023.06.08 07:41 fakeLover025 Please Help Me Graduate!

Hi! I am a 23 year old graduating student. Graduation fees are piling up and I need help. Currently, my parents are looking for ways to pay our remaining tuition balances but additional help for my graduation fees are very much needed. I would appreciate it if you could lend a little help.
I am an outstanding student without any failing grades. I just need to finish all my remaining fees for me to graduate without hesitation. If I can find a guarantor, I will offer my Boyfriend/friend-for-rent free of charge to those who can help me through this.
I will provide more information once we made contact. Please hit me up. Thank you.
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2023.06.08 07:41 taleoftooshitty I just got out of a 3-year time capsule... what has happened to the job market??????

Back in 2020 I decided to do charity work that required me to move to a remote part of the world. I had minimal access to internet and although I worked, I was technically a volunteer and unemployed.
I am now back and traversing the job market. I have a Master's degree and a good amount of experience. To be honest, my background is in education, so I was never expecting to make six figures. However, I cannot believe how difficult it is to find a job, let alone a job that pays over $20 an hour?? Seriously?? I have applied to more than 30 jobs in the last three weeks and all but like 6-7 of them are making under $20 dollars an hour. I haven't heard from even one of them.
There are many remote jobs now, and while I am all for it, they are impossible to get, since most of them are de-localized (open to professionals throughout the US) and hence, highly competitive. Once again, highly competitive for making less than $20 an hour. Food prices have skyrocketed, Gas is through the roof, rent is insane, but yes, let's all fight for a job requiring degrees making $16 an hour... insanity.
Even tutoring jobs are out of my league. The ones that pay *Decent*, not great, but decent, are often requiring a degree from an "elite" university, usually top 20 in the country... just to tutor some damn kids. I have all kinds of experience working with secondary and post-secondary students as well as degrees and a teaching certification, but it's not enough. I pride myself on being a great educator, but fuck it, I didn't go to Harvard so nothing I can do about it.
Ultimately I just want to express empathy from what I'm reading on this sub. The job market is insanity and shit, if there is a revolution, I'll join it. Fuck this nonsense.
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2023.06.08 07:40 Dazed-Confused-94 Going from salary to PhD funding

Very long story short, I have decided to basically take a 50% pay cut in order to do my PhD. I am currently basically living pay check to pay check (I live in a HCOL city) with my salary job. I'm a first generation student, I do not have any family support of any kind. Average rent for just a bedroom is $1300. What can I prepare in the next few months for this reduction of income? For reference, start of new income would be in October.
Any and all help appreciated. I am so stressed and afraid.
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2023.06.08 07:39 Physical_Pepper_182 I really just hate my roommate (ranting)

I probably make it out to be worse than it is, but I am completely over her.
She is constantly sitting in the living room, on my furniture, all day long with her bf. Sometimes well spice it up and have her friends scattered throughout the house. I feel like I can't leave my room without being judged, or stared out, so I go hours and days refusing to eat or use the bathroom because they are always out there. I'm never told when people are here and have walked out into the hall in booty shorts multiple times and have been embarrassed. At this point her bf is here more than me, so I'm confused as to why he doesn't pay rent. She has the wifi in her name, and I believe she constantly turns it off so I can't use it. She doesn't clean anything. She constantly leaves dirty dishes in the dishwasher, some of which are "shared supplies". Most of the dishes eventually have a thin layer of mold on them. She never vacuums or sweeps or anything. I am grateful that she recently began taking out the garbage since I have stopped.
I have been noticing some of my things being moved around. Specifically, my laundry supplies have been moved after I said she couldn't use them because she refused to buy the items with me. Also, weirder, I have started to notice that she is using my towel that is in the bathroom, or maybe her bf is, which I find extremely gross. Since I have had this suspicion she has been going through my stuff, I took an item from the living room and put it into my room. Found out the next day, while I was gone, she went into my room, snooped around, and found it. I'm not saying I'm proud at what I did, but I found out the information I needed to know.
There is now this tension and I do not feel comfortable or save in my own apartment. Lease is up in about 2 months, obviously I'm not resigning with her, but we need to have the conversation eventually to get one of us out of here to move forward. I'm looking for a way to confront her about going into my room, and tell her I want to renew the lease without her.
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2023.06.08 07:39 killerwolf95 Sooooo this isn’t lookin great

Hi. I’m a 20 year old male. I work at starbucks in Von’s up the street from my house and make $16.15 cuz I live in Cali. The problem is I pay $300 every week ($1200 monthly) for rent in my family’s apartment (mom, and two siblings where one is also paying $1200). I am making 300-400 every week (paid weekly) and never have anything left over. Like today I got paid $308 and gave it all to rent. I have a few dollars in my account now. My mom is having job troubles right now as well, so she’s not even getting paid enough to have money for food and barely even rent now cuz she’s giving up all her money too. And I know you can mention “oh it’s a hard knock life, toughen tf up” because that’s what everybody is saying to me. But i’m being serious, wtf do i do
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2023.06.08 07:36 forfiveroses Is it irresponsible to move to another city just because I like it?

I’m 22F, currently living as a junior designer in a biggest city in my country. I want to move to another city with a beach next year. (After 2 years of working here) I went there several times before, lived about a month 2 years ago. Its my favorite city.
I was depressed for few months working here. I went there for few days to freshen up. I loved it. The beach life really fits my personality and lifestyle.
It will be pretty hard to get a designer job there. If I do it will be very low income, same as now. Rent will be little cheaper.
My parents say it might be an unreasonable choice to move there just because I like it. I work in a small company now, so they expect me to work in a bigger one after my experience in this small one. They tell me, I’m too young and should be in a big city, working in a big company, earning money.
I didn’t take a year off my college, got job even before I graduated. I want some fun vacation life for a while.. I’m tired.
What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated!
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2023.06.08 07:33 Dapper-Software2896 My mom and I are going on a trip in California and we plan to rent a Lamborghini on turo just for fun. I am 17 and cars are my passion. I have my liscence and have had it for over a year. Could I get away with driving the car?

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2023.06.08 07:31 Vegetable_Course5061 Options for paying back debt

I am 27 and have managed to accrue a hefty sum of debt, currently about $500,000 of debt. Debt breakdown: 110k is credit card debt, ranging from 15-28% APR. 235k is unsecured personal loans, ranging from 15-34%. 155k is student loans. I have just graduated and will start paying these back in 6 months. Total monthly debt payment is around $13k and debts range from 7 years old to as recent as 10 months.
I pay $7000/month in rent and have been working with my landlord to try to find a tenant to replace my unit so I can move to a much smaller more affordable unit, but my lease has another year in it and so far nothing.
I earn $335,000/yr
I have about $50,000 in real estate and long term investments (think I Bonds, CDs, etc) which can take quite a while to cash out if needed. I have 2 months worth of rent and utility in short term investments ($20,000) that I can liquidate with a few days notice.
I have $110,000 in my 401k
I do not have any other assets. I do currently have a lawsuit still pending for the total damage of a vehicle I used to own from 2021.
I have let it get too far and really need to take a hard look in the mirror and cut this out, and I’m considering my first option as don’t buy anything except the bare necessities and take out a loan from my 401k to attack my highest interest debts (401k borrowing max of 50k to pay off 50k 34% APR debt). Focus on paying that off and snowballing the rest of my way through my debt, while trying very hard to move out to a 5k lesser apartment. Hopefully my plan is in three years, I’ll have no debt, no loans, and a much more controlled spending habits.
Is there any major pitfalls that come with a 401k loan in this circumstance, anything I may be missing, or anything I should do prior to a 401k loan?
Thanks for your help!
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2023.06.08 07:30 Grizzly-Redneck Extra tenants moved in under a single occupancy lease

This scenario took place in BC.
A few months back my neighbor rented his two bedroom suite to a single person. In his listing he had specified one price for single occupancy and a higher price for double. They wrote the lease for single occupancy pricing.
Shortly after moving in his tenant then moved in his girlfriend, then later the tenants sister also moved in. After speaking with a tenancy board representative my neighbor's understanding is that this is perfectly legal in BC given that it's physically a two bedroom suite despite it having been rented and priced as a one bedroom unit. Also the tenant did not need his permission and the LL is not entitled to any additional rent.
This kinda blew my mind so I'm wondering how does one protect themselves from these types of scenarios if the tenant has the right to just move people in?
Should he have specifically stated in the lease that there would be increased pricing based on number of occupants?
Is there a legal way to correctly set up a single occupancy agreement that's binding?
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2023.06.08 07:30 mvmullaney Rental Car coverage

Got in an accident last week. Other driver 100% at fault. My car is sitting in a tow yard, likely totaled, waiting for other driver’s insurance to collect and inspect it.
I need to rent a car to get to work, but I’m struggling to understand how insurance works.
I carry liability only with my own policy. Will this still cover me while in a rental? Or would I still need to buy additional coverage from the company? (Enterprise)
Other driver’s insurance said they wouldn’t pay for a damage waiver. This doesn’t seem fair to me, since I can’t afford $30 a day for however long it takes to sort my car, and I really can’t afford an incident with the rental and not be covered. Is this standard practice?
I don’t think my credit card offers any rental coverage.
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2023.06.08 07:29 Prince_Marf How to approach housing?

Hi Im pretty new to thinking realistically ab how Im going to pay off my loans. Please be nice 🙏
I just finished grad school with about $140k debt and making about 70k right now, but likely significantly more potential down the road. 30k is from undergrad which my parents (amazing) agreed to pay, and they intend to make a lump payment as soon as the repayment requirement starts.
Currently living with my parents and really don't want to be. I understand the best financial decision would be to stay with my parents until the loans are paid off... but that would really suck since I'm assuming these loans will take ~10 years to pay off (very rough estimate obviously). Don't really want to be here into my 30s. Given the affordability of housing in my area, I could get an apartment for a reasonable price $500-$1000/mo. But I could also wait several years and try to save enough to buy a house (build equity rather than essentially throwing money away on rent, right?).
So, does it ever make sense to try to save for a house rather than putting all would-be savings into repaying the loans? Anything I said seem absurd? Am I stupid?
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