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2023.05.31 17:14 SignificantMammoth42 How common is work-from-home in Ireland?
Particularly in the ICT sector? (Web design, UI/UX, data admin, systems etc)
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2023.05.31 17:13 Traditional-Sky-9845 [F4F] Cleopatra VII
Hi there, I'm looking to do a roleplay where Cleopatra VII Philopator (or any ancient Queen of your choice) somehow travels through time and space and ends up in my apartment.
The role-play would revolve around figuring out what to do about the fact that you have ended up in my apartment and assimilating you in to modern day life.
I don't mind playing the Queen that lands in your apartment either!!
So basically what happens is I come home from work and am preparing dinner in the kitchen and hear a banging and crashing noise. At first I think a picture must have fallen off the wall but the noise goes on for too long. I'm on the forth floor and there's security on the entrance door but I'm still startled and make my way to the bedroom where I find you - Cleopatra Queen of Egypt - and we take it from there.
Again and don't mind a role reversal where you play the person's apartment where I land in.
Message me if you're interested, I prefer Reddit chat.
I would also prefer for you to be 30+
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The role-play would revolve around figuring out what to do about the fact that you have ended up in my apartment and assimilating you in to modern day life.
I don't mind playing the Queen that lands in your apartment either!!
So basically what happens is I come home from work and am preparing dinner in the kitchen and hear a banging and crashing noise. At first I think a picture must have fallen off the wall but the noise goes on for too long. I'm on the forth floor and there's security on the entrance door but I'm still startled and make my way to the bedroom where I find you - Cleopatra Queen of Egypt - and we take it from there.
Again and don't mind a role reversal where you play the person's apartment where I land in.
Message me if you're interested, I prefer Reddit chat.
I would also prefer for you to be 30+
2023.05.31 17:13 CoolioSonicGamez So is my Meloetta stuck in purgatory until they (possibly) add a way to get her?
You can't transfer Meloetta to Violet/Scarlet without having her in the pokedex, Is there a way to get her in V/S without transfering from HOME or is she just stuck until (probably) the DLC?
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2023.05.31 17:12 RatedM477 So, the "not my cat" that's been visiting me for close to two years randomly brought a new friend with him recently, and not sure if I should do something?
Let me preface this all by saying, I've never owned a cat, and I've never interacted with enough of them to understand their behavior, so...
Anyway, for the last 1.5+ years, a random orange cat kinda started hanging out around my house (I refer to him as a "he" because I've heard most oranges are male, but I haven't really been able to verify that he's definitely a "he"). Early on, he seemed to just like hanging out on my front porch area, but he'd leave and run away if I tried to interact with him at all. At some point last year, I was able to get him to start approaching me, though he was very cautious. It progressed into letting him kinda smell my hands for a bit, and stuff, and then he became comfortable enough to let me pet him.
And ever since then, he's been very affectionate. He loves getting petted, he loves rolling around on his back by my feet, and he loves rubbing himself all over the outside of my house. I eventually started buying cat treats to feed him during his visits. Though, while he's become very friendly and affectionate towards me, he's still very skittish and flinchy in general. Like, if I even quietly chuckle when he does something cute, he flinches. Loud noises like cars driving by kinda make him jumpy, too.
I've invited him inside my house, and he's gotten a little brave about coming in and exploring, but he's very easily startled and will run out the door at the tiniest drop of a hat. I also have to leave the door open when he comes in, because if the door closes, he gets very loud and very panicky. He seems to mostly prefer staying outside the house.
I don't know if he has a home or not. He doesn't have a collar, but he doesn't look emaciated at all, he doesn't look mangy or dirty or gross at all. I assume he must be taken care of, but I have no idea where he is when he's not visiting me; I've tried to sort of keep an eye on where he goes when he leaves, but at this point, I've literally seen him wander away in every possible direction at one point or another. I've seen him socializing with a woman that lives down the street, but I don't think she owns him, and I'm not particularly interested in approaching her to ask about the cat, because she's a bit... unpleasant and problematic.
If I knew he needed a home, I'd love to take him in, and I feel kinda bad that he's outside so much. But at the same time, he's been doing fine for almost 2 years, now, and I certainly don't want to abduct someone else's cat. I'd love for him to stay, but he seems to just enjoy visiting, so I've mostly just been letting him do his thing and enjoying his visits.
So, yesterday morning, completely out of the blue, he visited as I was leaving for work, and he had a friend with him. In the 1.5+ years he's been hanging around, he's never brought a new buddy with him. The new friend is a grey striped cat, and while it doesn't look small enough to be a new kitten, it does look slightly smaller than the orange guy.
The new friend was very scared of me, though. I approached the orange boy just to try to get him out of the driveway so I could pull my car out without worrying I'd hit him, and the new friend ran into the street away from me, turned around to watch, and kept meowing. I tried to kinda beckon it over, and it kinda started to come, but then stopped, and backed off further to a driveway across the street, and kept watching and meowing. I watched as I pulled my car off and drove away, and I saw the new friend staring at me drive away, before running back over to my home to be with the orange guy.
I thought maybe this was just a weird one time incident, but this morning, both cats were hanging around again. I'm kinda perplexed, here, and I'm not sure if I should try to do something to help at all. I would be happy to take in one or both cats, but like I said, I don't think orange guy necessarily wants that, and I don't know what the deal is with his new friend. I do enjoy his visits very much, though, but I also want them to be safe (I don't know if new friend is smart enough to be mindful of the street or not). And I also don't want to attract a colony of feral cats to my home, either, lol. One visitor is nice, two is cool, but I don't think a herd of stray cats hanging around would be super appreciated by the neighborhood, heh.
Any thoughts or insights on what's going on here, and what, if anything, I should maybe do?
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Anyway, for the last 1.5+ years, a random orange cat kinda started hanging out around my house (I refer to him as a "he" because I've heard most oranges are male, but I haven't really been able to verify that he's definitely a "he"). Early on, he seemed to just like hanging out on my front porch area, but he'd leave and run away if I tried to interact with him at all. At some point last year, I was able to get him to start approaching me, though he was very cautious. It progressed into letting him kinda smell my hands for a bit, and stuff, and then he became comfortable enough to let me pet him.
And ever since then, he's been very affectionate. He loves getting petted, he loves rolling around on his back by my feet, and he loves rubbing himself all over the outside of my house. I eventually started buying cat treats to feed him during his visits. Though, while he's become very friendly and affectionate towards me, he's still very skittish and flinchy in general. Like, if I even quietly chuckle when he does something cute, he flinches. Loud noises like cars driving by kinda make him jumpy, too.
I've invited him inside my house, and he's gotten a little brave about coming in and exploring, but he's very easily startled and will run out the door at the tiniest drop of a hat. I also have to leave the door open when he comes in, because if the door closes, he gets very loud and very panicky. He seems to mostly prefer staying outside the house.
I don't know if he has a home or not. He doesn't have a collar, but he doesn't look emaciated at all, he doesn't look mangy or dirty or gross at all. I assume he must be taken care of, but I have no idea where he is when he's not visiting me; I've tried to sort of keep an eye on where he goes when he leaves, but at this point, I've literally seen him wander away in every possible direction at one point or another. I've seen him socializing with a woman that lives down the street, but I don't think she owns him, and I'm not particularly interested in approaching her to ask about the cat, because she's a bit... unpleasant and problematic.
If I knew he needed a home, I'd love to take him in, and I feel kinda bad that he's outside so much. But at the same time, he's been doing fine for almost 2 years, now, and I certainly don't want to abduct someone else's cat. I'd love for him to stay, but he seems to just enjoy visiting, so I've mostly just been letting him do his thing and enjoying his visits.
So, yesterday morning, completely out of the blue, he visited as I was leaving for work, and he had a friend with him. In the 1.5+ years he's been hanging around, he's never brought a new buddy with him. The new friend is a grey striped cat, and while it doesn't look small enough to be a new kitten, it does look slightly smaller than the orange guy.
The new friend was very scared of me, though. I approached the orange boy just to try to get him out of the driveway so I could pull my car out without worrying I'd hit him, and the new friend ran into the street away from me, turned around to watch, and kept meowing. I tried to kinda beckon it over, and it kinda started to come, but then stopped, and backed off further to a driveway across the street, and kept watching and meowing. I watched as I pulled my car off and drove away, and I saw the new friend staring at me drive away, before running back over to my home to be with the orange guy.
I thought maybe this was just a weird one time incident, but this morning, both cats were hanging around again. I'm kinda perplexed, here, and I'm not sure if I should try to do something to help at all. I would be happy to take in one or both cats, but like I said, I don't think orange guy necessarily wants that, and I don't know what the deal is with his new friend. I do enjoy his visits very much, though, but I also want them to be safe (I don't know if new friend is smart enough to be mindful of the street or not). And I also don't want to attract a colony of feral cats to my home, either, lol. One visitor is nice, two is cool, but I don't think a herd of stray cats hanging around would be super appreciated by the neighborhood, heh.
Any thoughts or insights on what's going on here, and what, if anything, I should maybe do?
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2023.05.31 17:12 Mission-Function-155 A story Chat GPT made by me spinning a few wheels
In a quiet suburban neighborhood, a young boy named Evan eagerly prepared for a much-anticipated slumber party at his friend William's house. Little did Evan know that this innocent gathering would soon become a night filled with unimaginable horrors.
As the sun dipped below the horizon, the friends gathered in William's cozy living room, sharing laughter and stories. The atmosphere was perfect for a fun-filled evening, or so they thought. Unbeknownst to the group, a malevolent force lingered in the shadows, waiting to unleash chaos upon them.
As the night progressed, Evan and his friends began to experience strange occurrences—whispers in the dark, flickering lights, and a growing sense of unease. Unbeknownst to them, Nightmare Foxy, a fearsome character from the infamous FNaF video game series, had materialized within the confines of William's home.
Nightmare Foxy, fueled by a vengeful spirit, sought to terrorize those who dared to enter its domain. With each passing hour, the slumber party transformed into a nightmare beyond their wildest imaginations. Evan and his friends soon found themselves trapped in a perilous battle for survival against an otherworldly entity.
In their desperate struggle to escape Nightmare Foxy's clutches, the group discovered a series of cryptic clues left behind by a previous victim who had encountered the malevolent spirit. Guided by these messages, Evan and his friends pieced together the tragic history of Nightmare Foxy and the spirit that possessed it.
Driven by determination and a sense of camaraderie, the group devised a plan to confront Nightmare Foxy head-on. Armed with knowledge of its weaknesses, they set out to banish the malevolent spirit back into the virtual world it had escaped from.
As the final showdown approached, tension filled the air. Evan and his friends fought valiantly against Nightmare Foxy, using their quick thinking and teamwork to outsmart the animatronic creature. With each decisive move, they chipped away at its power, slowly regaining control of their own destiny.
In an epic climax, Evan and his friends managed to trap Nightmare Foxy once again, sealing it away from the real world. Exhausted but victorious, they celebrated their hard-fought triumph, knowing they had successfully thwarted the evil that had threatened their lives.
The slumber party, once tainted by fear, now became a symbol of resilience and friendship. Evan and his friends emerged from the harrowing ordeal stronger and more united than ever before. They vowed to remain vigilant, always ready to confront any future challenges together.
As time passed, the tale of Evan and his friends spread throughout the town, a cautionary reminder of the dangers that lurk in the shadows. They became local heroes, their courage inspiring others to face their fears head-on.
And so, Evan's slumber party became a legend, forever etched in the memories of those who experienced its horrors. It served as a testament to the indomitable spirit of friendship and the unwavering belief that even in the darkest of nights, light and bravery can prevail.
I give it a 6/10
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As the sun dipped below the horizon, the friends gathered in William's cozy living room, sharing laughter and stories. The atmosphere was perfect for a fun-filled evening, or so they thought. Unbeknownst to the group, a malevolent force lingered in the shadows, waiting to unleash chaos upon them.
As the night progressed, Evan and his friends began to experience strange occurrences—whispers in the dark, flickering lights, and a growing sense of unease. Unbeknownst to them, Nightmare Foxy, a fearsome character from the infamous FNaF video game series, had materialized within the confines of William's home.
Nightmare Foxy, fueled by a vengeful spirit, sought to terrorize those who dared to enter its domain. With each passing hour, the slumber party transformed into a nightmare beyond their wildest imaginations. Evan and his friends soon found themselves trapped in a perilous battle for survival against an otherworldly entity.
In their desperate struggle to escape Nightmare Foxy's clutches, the group discovered a series of cryptic clues left behind by a previous victim who had encountered the malevolent spirit. Guided by these messages, Evan and his friends pieced together the tragic history of Nightmare Foxy and the spirit that possessed it.
Driven by determination and a sense of camaraderie, the group devised a plan to confront Nightmare Foxy head-on. Armed with knowledge of its weaknesses, they set out to banish the malevolent spirit back into the virtual world it had escaped from.
As the final showdown approached, tension filled the air. Evan and his friends fought valiantly against Nightmare Foxy, using their quick thinking and teamwork to outsmart the animatronic creature. With each decisive move, they chipped away at its power, slowly regaining control of their own destiny.
In an epic climax, Evan and his friends managed to trap Nightmare Foxy once again, sealing it away from the real world. Exhausted but victorious, they celebrated their hard-fought triumph, knowing they had successfully thwarted the evil that had threatened their lives.
The slumber party, once tainted by fear, now became a symbol of resilience and friendship. Evan and his friends emerged from the harrowing ordeal stronger and more united than ever before. They vowed to remain vigilant, always ready to confront any future challenges together.
As time passed, the tale of Evan and his friends spread throughout the town, a cautionary reminder of the dangers that lurk in the shadows. They became local heroes, their courage inspiring others to face their fears head-on.
And so, Evan's slumber party became a legend, forever etched in the memories of those who experienced its horrors. It served as a testament to the indomitable spirit of friendship and the unwavering belief that even in the darkest of nights, light and bravery can prevail.
I give it a 6/10
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2023.05.31 17:11 mccringleberry_psu Expected Goals Comparison for U20 Group Stage
Most of the typical sources didn't have xG values for the U20 WC games, but I was able to find one source (footystats.org). A quick look at a recent game Valencia-Espanyol shows that it is definitely a bit different than FotMob and Fbref/Opta.
I captured the table after the group stage when I started this but it looks like it's now updated with the 1st set of knockout games (so numbers change slightly at the link).
*Values listed are the per game average
Here is a look at where USA ranked after each team played the full 3 game group stage.
*Ranking value listed is for Highest GF/GD values and Lowest GA values for the 24 teams in the tournament
Main Takeaways:
-The top teams are Brazil, Ecuador and Argentina with Uruguay/Colombia trailing a bit (and USA between the groups), so there is certainly a bit of home field advantage it appears. The European teams (England/Italy) and then Gambia are in the next group.
-USA/Slonina has saved over a goal a game according to these stats (-1.17 goals per game) sitting 3rd behind Tunisia and Argentina.
-USA has severely underperformed their expected goals output. Ranking in the bottom 7 in the tournament (tied with Gambia, the only other Top 2 seed ranked that low). Unlucky or just not finishers?
-The underperformance in GF and overperformance in GA moves them into 8th (though likely behind everyone they have left on the schedule except potentially Gambia).
-Outside of possibly the groups in the Argentina-Ecuador bracket, USA with a Uruguay-Brazil-Argentina/Ecuador path from here could be as difficult as possible based on goal and expected goal values.
-USA with the firepower to be a top 4 team and even higher in expected rankings.
Caveats:
-Low sample size
-Accuracy of these #'s in particular or xG in general
-Huge variance in opponents
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I captured the table after the group stage when I started this but it looks like it's now updated with the 1st set of knockout games (so numbers change slightly at the link).
| Values* | xGF | xGA | xGD | GF | GA | GD | GF-xGF | GA-xGA | GD-xGD |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| USA | 2.59 | 1.17 | 1.42 | 2.0 | 0.0 | 2.0 | -0.59 | -1.17 | 0.58 |
Here is a look at where USA ranked after each team played the full 3 game group stage.
| Rankings* | xGF | xGA | xGD | GF | GA | GD | GF-xGF | GA-xGA | GD-xGD |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| USA | 3 | 1 | 2 | 5 | 1 | 4 | 17 | 3 | 8 |
Main Takeaways:
-The top teams are Brazil, Ecuador and Argentina with Uruguay/Colombia trailing a bit (and USA between the groups), so there is certainly a bit of home field advantage it appears. The European teams (England/Italy) and then Gambia are in the next group.
-USA/Slonina has saved over a goal a game according to these stats (-1.17 goals per game) sitting 3rd behind Tunisia and Argentina.
-USA has severely underperformed their expected goals output. Ranking in the bottom 7 in the tournament (tied with Gambia, the only other Top 2 seed ranked that low). Unlucky or just not finishers?
-The underperformance in GF and overperformance in GA moves them into 8th (though likely behind everyone they have left on the schedule except potentially Gambia).
-Outside of possibly the groups in the Argentina-Ecuador bracket, USA with a Uruguay-Brazil-Argentina/Ecuador path from here could be as difficult as possible based on goal and expected goal values.
-USA with the firepower to be a top 4 team and even higher in expected rankings.
Caveats:
-Low sample size
-Accuracy of these #'s in particular or xG in general
-Huge variance in opponents
2023.05.31 17:11 Wise-Worldliness- How does everyone deal with house-shares , struggling right now could do with some encouragement :)
Hello all,
I recently moved to a new houseshare with high hopes the rent is high, very nice and modern but again issues with noise the walls are so thin.
I’m only woman (34) living with three younger men 23-27. And really struggling to feel comfortable and not lonely again.
The main issue I think is their maturity and not age and myself having done weekly therapy for the past year , and having made really great connections with people On a recent weeks holiday I’m at my wits end again and craving connection like I just had.
They lads don’t ask anything back of me , eg I’ll ask about their day , follow on questions just general kind open and interested but … nothing back . Or one of them literally walk out the room as he’s talking to me .
I had an issue with being recorded on the ring door bell that only the landlords had access too. It recorded the lads saying that ‘I was ridiculous ‘and having a snide conversation to the landlord about my issue with it .
I just don’t feel I can go on living in these situations with others , it hurts my soul. Why can’t people just be kind and considerate of noise and just be genuine. I’m stressed constantly it make the ptsd so much worse .
I feel like my life is just fucked and I’m going to be stuck in these miserable situations for ever . I feel super alone. I’m been on benefits for 2 years trying to heal CPTSD . I cut off a large group of friends because they were drinking a lot and I discovered had very little empathy.
Just feel massively stuck and so sad and angry that things are as they are because of all the trauma inflicted upon me by abusers . Most people my age have career decent mates I feel like I’m just a shadow . I don’t even get the basic decency of being asked how my day was or what I’ve been up to at home people don’t give a shit
Where are all the nice loving people my heart hurts
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I recently moved to a new houseshare with high hopes the rent is high, very nice and modern but again issues with noise the walls are so thin.
I’m only woman (34) living with three younger men 23-27. And really struggling to feel comfortable and not lonely again.
The main issue I think is their maturity and not age and myself having done weekly therapy for the past year , and having made really great connections with people On a recent weeks holiday I’m at my wits end again and craving connection like I just had.
They lads don’t ask anything back of me , eg I’ll ask about their day , follow on questions just general kind open and interested but … nothing back . Or one of them literally walk out the room as he’s talking to me .
I had an issue with being recorded on the ring door bell that only the landlords had access too. It recorded the lads saying that ‘I was ridiculous ‘and having a snide conversation to the landlord about my issue with it .
I just don’t feel I can go on living in these situations with others , it hurts my soul. Why can’t people just be kind and considerate of noise and just be genuine. I’m stressed constantly it make the ptsd so much worse .
I feel like my life is just fucked and I’m going to be stuck in these miserable situations for ever . I feel super alone. I’m been on benefits for 2 years trying to heal CPTSD . I cut off a large group of friends because they were drinking a lot and I discovered had very little empathy.
Just feel massively stuck and so sad and angry that things are as they are because of all the trauma inflicted upon me by abusers . Most people my age have career decent mates I feel like I’m just a shadow . I don’t even get the basic decency of being asked how my day was or what I’ve been up to at home people don’t give a shit
Where are all the nice loving people my heart hurts
2023.05.31 17:11 bigian52 These bookmarks appeared as icons overnight somehow and I can not delete them. They are links to reset my Microsoft password. How the heck do I delete them?
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In Iman Gadzhi – Copy Paste Agency, you will learn:
- How to continue to run a multiple-six-figure agency from home with a skeleton staff and minimal expenses
- How to command higher retainers… and retain those clients for longer
- How to automate, delegate, and optimize every area of your agency from lead generation and sales to service delivery and client communication
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2023.05.31 17:11 Paperdollyparton PMDD you raggedy bi+ch
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2023.05.31 17:11 Rowlandum Potential allergy to new puppy
Hi all,
After many years of deliberation and bringing up children we have jumped on board the dog train ourselves and added a 2 month old labrador to our family.
As a child my parents had a springer spaniel who lived in the house with us and I had no allergies. That dog passed away 20 years ago but I have been exposed for extended time periods to my mother in laws King Charles spaniels, my cousin has a boxer x and my sister a Swiss shepherd. Contact with these animals ranges from hours to up to a week depending on how long we are visiting and has been on and off for years with no issues.
After bringing our labrador puppy Daisy home, after 1 week my upper arms have come out in really itchy hives. Its mostly on my right arm with very few on my left. Could this be a new dog allergy developing? The hives are ONLY on my upper arms, not where I mostly contact the dog (hands/wrists/legs).
I really hope this is coincidence, the thought of the look on my kids faces if we have to return the puppy is breaking my heart. Has anyone heard of a reaction like this before, got an appt with the dr on Monday to get some expert advice
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After many years of deliberation and bringing up children we have jumped on board the dog train ourselves and added a 2 month old labrador to our family.
As a child my parents had a springer spaniel who lived in the house with us and I had no allergies. That dog passed away 20 years ago but I have been exposed for extended time periods to my mother in laws King Charles spaniels, my cousin has a boxer x and my sister a Swiss shepherd. Contact with these animals ranges from hours to up to a week depending on how long we are visiting and has been on and off for years with no issues.
After bringing our labrador puppy Daisy home, after 1 week my upper arms have come out in really itchy hives. Its mostly on my right arm with very few on my left. Could this be a new dog allergy developing? The hives are ONLY on my upper arms, not where I mostly contact the dog (hands/wrists/legs).
I really hope this is coincidence, the thought of the look on my kids faces if we have to return the puppy is breaking my heart. Has anyone heard of a reaction like this before, got an appt with the dr on Monday to get some expert advice
2023.05.31 17:10 FanciFulEwe BAŞKANIMIZI BANLAYANLARA BAKIN HELE
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2023.05.31 17:10 SwissCheese4Collagen Nostrils McBeardsley Power Hour: Actually Gunner's Appearance aka My Super Lesbian Cat Austin is a witch! HE IS HERE! (Official Birth Vlog)
 | Howdy Snarkers, Actually Gunner Still James' Birth vlog has finally been posted a week later. We know the name ended up being Actually Gunner instead of Maybe Edwin, we know he born on May 17, but we don't know is how much he weighed when he was born. OfNostrils is going to have Nostrils in Charge Rachel as her Doula at the hospital. She, OfNostrils, and Nostrils all tried to predict how much the baby would weigh. Only Nostrils tried to guess the time he would be born, and also he would be dark headed. But we are getting ahead of ourselves, let's start at the beginning. submitted by SwissCheese4Collagen to SnarkyRecapsBySwiss [link] [comments] Giddy-Up & Austina help open the video The intro is super annoying this week because it bled over into the theme song, so the theme song was just super loud and you heard the birth audio continue past the birth footage. Actually Gunner doesn't have a title spot yet, welcome to life as the third born, kid. Giddy-Up hops around behind his mother excited to announce that his baby week, Austina is excited to announce that it's Mother's Day. Look at our girl sticking to the scheduling like a pro. Austina sprinkles some tap water on her mother before she gets sent to the van with Giddy-Up because today is the last baby Dr. appointment. Before we can go however, OfNostrils has to show us her project that she finished before "baby" arrived. It's a table! With four chairs! And a vase of flowers! That's it. Whatever makes her happy I guess. OfNostrils tells us that her stuff is back to the hospital so she's ready to go when ever and she's excited but she also sometimes wishes time would slow down because she can't believe it and OMC...We have heard this so many times. Austina would like to eat obviously, as she's more interested in burgers than brothers But off we go to the final Dr. appointment. As they wait in the van for Nostrils to arrive, OfNostrils quizzes Nostrils The Next Generation on their newest members arrival. Giddy-Up thinks two days until Actually Gunner Still James arrives, while Austina says burger twice before sticking her fingers in her mouth for the rest of the "Scene". The captions help her out and say Google wants and burger the second time but OfNostrils quickly realizes Austina isn't playing along for the cameras and flips back to Giddy-Up. Giddy-Up's jaw drops when his mother informs him that tomorrow is when the baby will get here. She asks Austina what she wants to name him as they wait for Nostrils to appear. Giddy-Up says he wants to name the baby Mr. Joel and Austina nods her assent. OfNostrils expresses extreme surprise at this until she figures out they are talking about someone at church, "a friend". Why do they always use that word, by the way? That's up there with "precious", "season of life", and "blessing". Anyways, the kids get distracted by Nostrils showing up with a trailer, and we make it into the doctor's office where we get the clip we saw last week in the teaser of Nostrils talking about OfNostrils' cervix, the caption still say "styling", not "dilating", but they now say "softening" instead of "something". Oh nothing to see here, just coaching the two-year-old on how to look more fully at the camera. Joy's Styled Cervix Well it's official, I want to see what other names were on that list. I have to see what Gunner beat. Back at the Nostrils McBeardsley house, it's business as usual which means, you guessed it, naps! Once they wake up the children eat cantaloupe, with OfNostrils priming Austina's future disordered eating by exclaiming "girl! Did you eat all that cantaloupe! Let me see that belly", as Austina happily licks the cutting board clean. As she should. Giddy-Up gets in a shot with OfNostrils' baby bumpAnd yells "hello" a couple times to his little brother who he still wants to name Mr. Joel. Giddy-Up goes to jump on Nostrils to try and convince Him that they should name the baby Mr. Joel until he is presented with the problem of having too many Mr. Joels. He sits on his father and states he wants to name to be James baby. Nostrils informed him that the baby's middle name will be James, and Giddy-Up and Austina proceed to jump on top of their father as their mother films it for the Tube. So wholesome, right? Anyways, OfNostrils is having quite the dilemma over whether or not to keep her % and 2 1/2-year-old home so she can "lay them down one more time before baby comes", or let her and her husband get a night of uninterrupted sleep before going into be induced for labor at 430 in the morning by having her mother-in-law keep the children for the next 2 nights instead of one. She chooses the wise option, and sends Giddy-Up and Austina with Grandma if you're the kids. I don't know why she is so set on calling Nostrils' mom Grandmother, when everyone else calls her Grandma. These two are gonna try to run away to Mr. Joel's house one of these weeks. Says Nostrils, with his industrial-strength DNA... We will have to take your word for that. No, really she turned it on and it was 3:57 Finally, it's time to go to the hospital. Since she has everything packed, she waits in the kitchen for Nostrils to wake up. While she waits OfNostrils gives us the Last Bump Check, and her prediction that the baby will weigh 8 1/2, no 9 pounds she says. Back in the kitchen Nostrils has appeared, and he starts digging in the freezer only to pull out an Amazon box full of individually packaged chocolate chip cookies, which OfNostrils claims are her cookies. Nostrils exclaims he can have a cookie, as OfNostrils explains they are part of a meal train from the church. Nostrils also made her edible Cookie dough freezer bites, which she points out are gummy bear shaped. The fact that the freezer cookie dough bites are little gummy bears really makes me think that whoever made them also makes either wine or weed gummies. Will include Serial Killer Grinch Face below if requested. Also, who splashed out for this? Did Kath! have an extra? Off they go to the hospital, in the dark and sprinkling rain where OfNostrils takes a picture of Nostrils doing his patented serial killer grinch smile as he drives down the road. Once they get to the hospital Nostrils asks OfNostrils if she's ready to have a baby. I mean I hope they are, kind of late now. They get to the "huge" room, where nostrils in charge, Rachel chats with nostrils. OfNostrils shows us the tissues on the table before sliding over to see Actually Gunner's landing pad as Nostrils reminds his sister just how ugly he thinks her nephew was when he was first born. Which is rich considering that Giddy-Up looked a lot like ol Col. Brillo Beard. Giddy-Up had peach fuzz, obviously Nostrils can't have that OfNostrils settles in and she has her ice chips, she has her IV that didn't hurt, and the Pitocin going into it. She credits the IV being so easy to the amount of water she's been drinking, not God. God's taking this personally, or just relieved that they left his name out of their mouth for five seconds? Either way her cervix is "styled" to a four, and her doctor and nostril in charge Rachel will be clocking in an hour or so while Perm and J16 will be there in about two hours. Nostrils is going to try to take a nap, OfNostrils thinks she won't be able to. To be fair, OfNostrils guess was technically 8 pounds and 16 ounces so the McBeardsleys guessed within 2 ounces of each other. They're splitting frog hairs this point, with Nostril in charge Rachel as the outlier. OfNostrils decides it's time to take final predictions. She sticks with her 9 pound guess, Nostrils says 8 lbs. 14 oz., changes his mind to 8 lbs. 13 oz. before saying 8 lbs. 14 oz. Nostril in charge Rachel guesses 7 lbs. 9 oz., as Nostrils tries to tell her to eat something that he specifically brought for her. Once she makes her guess Nostrils and OfNostrils tried to tell her that the baby is measuring big, which I would expect a Doula to have known? She retorts it must be the baby's big head, and they inform her that it's his stomach measuring big, which again I would expect the Doula to have been brought up to speed, prior to being in actual active labor? Nostrils needs both hands on the IV pole at all times. Music plays as Nostril in charge Rachel perches on the bed while playing a game of charades with Meech, As nostrils sits on the couch next to OfNostrils bouncing on a yoga ball. Meech and OfNostrils get their screen time in as Nostrils catches a couple winks. The McBeardsley's take nostril in charge Rachel along as they walk a couple miles in the halls, Nostrils has a brainwave and uses the robe pocket on his wife's back to carry his fountain pop while he is the IV jockey. Must be that NASA engineering gene. They returned to the room and the McBeardsleys take naps. OfNostrils wakes up and get the simultaneous back massage from Meech and nostril in charge Rachel, while J16 films Nostrils sleeping in the background. Nostrils has been sleeping more this vlog than the rest of them have this whole time... YouThe https://preview.redd.it/9e2lequw283b1.png?width=1600&format=png&auto=webp&s=f164f837e1873ad8a4c6be07803c2ab8be334b34 Speaking of J16, OfNostrils calls her "Hansel", which, didn't think that one was ever going to be a nickname at TTH. OfNostrils recaps Giddy-Up's birth, when J16 was only able to witness up until the emergency C-section. Not sure why she wasn't able to be around for Austina's birth... But anyways hopefully this one goes smoothly and she is able to see the whole thing. I suppose they have to show her what it's like to be handed a buddy at the hospital, J 17 is probably in line to go to the hospital the next time the SeeWorld's have a new attraction to get the experience. OfNostrils also informs us it's 1:30 PM and she has not been checked since 10 AM. J16's gotta earn her place in the delivery room by being the main camera woman. \"Answer it mom\" – Nostrils It's easier to tell time in casinos than in this hospital room, But I'm guessing Giddy-Up and Austina don't have many 9:30 PM social appointments so this must be the next day. Nostrils face times "Grandmother" Nostrils To check in on Nostrils The Next Generation as Meech checks in with Jana (I'm guessing), Nostrils literally wills his mother to answer the phone, where Giddy-Up and Austina pop on the screen. Giddy-Up is excited about a new shirt, Nostrils agrees that it is a cool shirt. Giddy-Up asks "have you had that baby yet", which sounds like something that GrandNostrils has said every time is talk to OfNostrils in the past three months. OfNostrils tells the children, she misses them, she can't wait to see them and hold them but Giddy-Up is excited that he has gum. OfNostrils asks "grandma gave you gum, oh man." No idea if he is supposed to have gum or not or what the deal is but Grandmother Nostrils Suddenly finds out that she has been rushing for no reason because she's half an hour early. OfNostrils states that she told her the time was 9:30, not nine. This must be the next day, although we didn't get a snazzy next day infographics or transition. No word on where they're going however, my bet is on swim lessons. Grandmother Nostrils has forgotten Giddy-Up, apparently that's not a big deal though. OfNostrils does remind her to bring in extra clothes, definitely swim lessons. Nostrils demands the phone back and we cut to OfNostrils lying in bed with a white cloth on her forehead, it appears to be go time. Seems like she had an easy time of the delivery part so maybe they won't stop at four like they said a couple weeks ago, months ago? OfNostrils gets the usual words of encouragement and vague instructions on how to squeeze a person out of your body from her mother, sister and sister in law. They work and and 8 lbs. 14 oz. Actually Gunner Still James emerges only to be flung up on his mother's chest and filmed for the Internet. See? I told you My Super Lesbian Cat Austin was witch. Welcome to the circus, Kid. Good luck. Literally on display the second he takes his first breath. What a fucked up way to be initiated into your family... Okay guys honest to God I swear Part 2 will be up today, I think I finally fine-tuned my new process to where it will work a lot quicker. Also, Baby Swiss and I plan to write down our snarky comments as we watch the documentary and post the top 10 or something. She is super excited to stay up and start watching it at midnight. I can leave a live chat open then if anybody wants, just let me know. |
2023.05.31 17:10 Dear-Condition8347 Timeline advice for remodel project.
Hello. I live in Santa Barbara county , Ca. I’m a new home owner that bought a fixer upper originally built in 1967 with a crawl space. I’m working with a structural engineer and architect to do a remodel to a combined kitchen and living room which will require updating the foundation , new flooring, and chimney to bring things to structural code and obviously for safety reasons. I’m also expecting some other surprises along the way. We are pulling permits for the project(pending approval). Contractors are very busy and in high demand in our area. I’ve tried to make sense of the building plans , but they are over my head. I asked the architect to provide me with a summary in laymen’s terms of what’s in the plans and he told me that’s between me and our contractor. What should I expect from our contractor in the form of a formal estimate with the scope of work and at what point should I expect it(I.e I get he’s busy and doesn’t want to waste his time (I wouldn’t); thereby does this usually happen after permits are approved?) This is going to be an expensive 6 figure project and wondering how payment usually works as well. Thanks in advance.
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2023.05.31 17:09 meowz89 Took me 5 years to be ready to adopt a cat again. When I met these two I knew I wanted to be their mom. I can't wait to bring them home - hopefully by Friday. They're bffs (4 months apart in age), so I couldn't take the one and not the other. Sage and nameless (for now)
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2023.05.31 17:09 NotAnotherFakefyre Lucamore I - Come to Call
They were supposed to be safe, Rickard was a warrior in the company of other warriors, his wife innocent, their girls doubly so, but the savages had cared none. It didn’t give Lucamore any comfort knowing that his son had died defending his wife and daughters, that it’d taken three at once to strike down his eldest son, but the attack’s sole survivor had told him anyway. He’d expected Bethany Dustin and her daughters to be stolen by the Wildlings, held as hostages, or worse as prizes, but no, their heads had been put on spears like all the others.
The anger burned in his heart whilst the sorrow tried to drown his lungs, but the worst of it all was the twisting guilt in his stomach. The Warden of the North had nearly ignored his wife, nearly chosen to simply call his banners and march without sending the king more than a raven, but she had been right. This was something he had to do himself, to prevent misunderstandings if nothing else. Jon would ready the men, his new heir was capable and wise, it was the fair-haired lad on the horse next to his own that worried Lucamore.
Theomore was usually more talkative, he’d wanted to return south as long as Lucamore could remember, but his flippant attitude and self-indulgent behaviors had been absent this trip. He’d scarcely drank, never once had the boy slunk off with some whore, he’d only sat around the fire honing a blade. Theomore had never taken his duty seriously, thinking himself too far down the line of succession to warrant taking any responsibility, and had driven a wedge between father and son because of it.
But now, Lucamore almost missed the unserious boy, with his sly smiles and sharp tongue, the stranger in his place worried him. Lucamore could handle a wolf that too often indulged his impulses, such could be fixed with time and age, but a rabid wolf was something else. The father let his gaze linger on his son for a moment more, then turned his eyes back to the road as the spires of the Red Keep continued to rise as they drew nearer.
He was not eager to converse with the king born to a usurper’s line, one that according to rumor and hearsay had a grip on reality that was slowly slipping. But the dances were done, and with a few generations more they would be all but forgotten. Lucamore would stomach it all, for his son, for his granddaughters. If the Olds Gods had any mercy left for him, he’d never have to come south again.
But his Gods were not known for mercy.
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Theo let his eyes linger on the Red Keep’s rising towers on the horizon as the sun began to set behind them, the orange glow of sunset shining between them as the day began to die. The last time he’d been so far away from home, it’d been in search of adventure, not of war. But last time he’d had two sweet nieces, one just beginning to use words much to the pride of her father, his eldest brother, and now he had none of them.
As his mare trotted beneath him, he thought of the little girls who’d sat at his knee and begged for their uncle to tell them more stories with wide eyes, and then of their fate. Children’s heads on spikes alongside their parents, it was despicable, it was vile, it was savage. He’d always been the one to smile, the one to laugh, it had been for his brothers and sister to carry the grim seriousness of the North.
But it was different now.
He still wasn’t like them, wasn’t right, where Jon and Gilliane had taken the news with faces of stone and words of ice, Theomore had been the opposite. They were subdued, mournful, cold, but he was not sorrowful, he was angry.
His father had never said it, but Theomore knew it all the same; he’d been taken south to stop him from striking out on his own, not because of his ‘familiarity’ with the warmer half of Westeros. But even Lucamore Stark could not keep him forever.
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The anger burned in his heart whilst the sorrow tried to drown his lungs, but the worst of it all was the twisting guilt in his stomach. The Warden of the North had nearly ignored his wife, nearly chosen to simply call his banners and march without sending the king more than a raven, but she had been right. This was something he had to do himself, to prevent misunderstandings if nothing else. Jon would ready the men, his new heir was capable and wise, it was the fair-haired lad on the horse next to his own that worried Lucamore.
Theomore was usually more talkative, he’d wanted to return south as long as Lucamore could remember, but his flippant attitude and self-indulgent behaviors had been absent this trip. He’d scarcely drank, never once had the boy slunk off with some whore, he’d only sat around the fire honing a blade. Theomore had never taken his duty seriously, thinking himself too far down the line of succession to warrant taking any responsibility, and had driven a wedge between father and son because of it.
But now, Lucamore almost missed the unserious boy, with his sly smiles and sharp tongue, the stranger in his place worried him. Lucamore could handle a wolf that too often indulged his impulses, such could be fixed with time and age, but a rabid wolf was something else. The father let his gaze linger on his son for a moment more, then turned his eyes back to the road as the spires of the Red Keep continued to rise as they drew nearer.
He was not eager to converse with the king born to a usurper’s line, one that according to rumor and hearsay had a grip on reality that was slowly slipping. But the dances were done, and with a few generations more they would be all but forgotten. Lucamore would stomach it all, for his son, for his granddaughters. If the Olds Gods had any mercy left for him, he’d never have to come south again.
But his Gods were not known for mercy.
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Theo let his eyes linger on the Red Keep’s rising towers on the horizon as the sun began to set behind them, the orange glow of sunset shining between them as the day began to die. The last time he’d been so far away from home, it’d been in search of adventure, not of war. But last time he’d had two sweet nieces, one just beginning to use words much to the pride of her father, his eldest brother, and now he had none of them.
As his mare trotted beneath him, he thought of the little girls who’d sat at his knee and begged for their uncle to tell them more stories with wide eyes, and then of their fate. Children’s heads on spikes alongside their parents, it was despicable, it was vile, it was savage. He’d always been the one to smile, the one to laugh, it had been for his brothers and sister to carry the grim seriousness of the North.
But it was different now.
He still wasn’t like them, wasn’t right, where Jon and Gilliane had taken the news with faces of stone and words of ice, Theomore had been the opposite. They were subdued, mournful, cold, but he was not sorrowful, he was angry.
His father had never said it, but Theomore knew it all the same; he’d been taken south to stop him from striking out on his own, not because of his ‘familiarity’ with the warmer half of Westeros. But even Lucamore Stark could not keep him forever.
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2023.05.31 17:09 sunbleahced What do you say to someone needing advice for their direction in life?
What do you tell someone who doesn't know what to do with their life, and wants advice? Someone (42 M) I (40 M) care about has gone through some loss, separation, a few hard financial blows, and doesn't know what to do next, whether to seek a new career. What would you say to them?
In the past he has done landscaping, dog grooming, facilities maintenance, and side jobs fixing small to medium projects in houses like putting in shower surrounds, knocking down and putting up walls, lighting repair, tile, flooring, and painting.
Within recent times he has lost someone, went through a financial loss and lost a lot of his equipment to do handiwork and home repair, and is just working part time retail jobs, working as much as he can or needs to in order to get by.
He has been deliberating over whether he should invest in rebuilding his side business and continue on doing landscaping and home repair, or do something new and move on, and is struggling with deciding what will make him more happy.
On one hand, time passes no matter what you do; 4-5 years retraining, developing a new skill, building a new business or starting a new vocational program seems like a long time. But in 5 years (at least when you're our age) it will feel like that time has gone by in a flash and if you don't use it, it's kind of squandered. The issue with this is that he doesn't want to start all over at his age, which I can't fault, and doesn't want to be tied down to any place or thing, and is thinking of moving somewhere warmer, picking up odd jobs and more retail work to get a foothold somewhere else, somewhere the grass looks greener, somewhere he can spend more time outdoors and in the sun (we have brutal long winters - he's done snow removal as a side job, too).
On the other, leveraging the skills you already have can be a great launching point and might be the easiest place to start. The problem is that he is struggling with how to move forward this way alone. He has had business partners, friends, and family in the past to help, each in their own way or role, and right now is finding himself without the connections he used to have to know where to begin. He has also lost most if not all of his equipment and would need to borrow, or invest practically all of his savings into restarting a side business that has fallen by the wayside and hasn't been generating income or clientele for over a year now.
In my life I've learned, and sometimes I feel like saying, sometimes you just have to pick something and buckle down. Pull the trigger. Make compromises and sacrifices. Things he seems apprehensive to do, and he has been really in his head about finding the "perfect" thing or what will make him the most happy.
That's not how life works, through the trials I've learned. I feel like at some point in everyone's life they have to admit to themselves "I am not superman/supergirl, I'm never going to be a [neurosurgeon, corporate attorney, CEO], and these are the skills I have, the talents I have developed, and the things I enjoy. So option A, B, or C, requires some compromise, sacrifice, and letting go of other dreams, but you either act, or do nothing.
I want to say something supportive, and don't want to come across as harsh, or judging. I realize that inner monologue even though it's self talk comes across to other people, often, as critical or insensitive. My life experience brought me there and it doesn't feel harsh to me. I know that isn't the right way to say it to this one, specific person, though.
What on earth do you say? How do you help inspire, and support someone? What are you supposed to do when someone *is in fact* asking for advice, and isn't ready to move one way or another... for a relatively long period of time?
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In the past he has done landscaping, dog grooming, facilities maintenance, and side jobs fixing small to medium projects in houses like putting in shower surrounds, knocking down and putting up walls, lighting repair, tile, flooring, and painting.
Within recent times he has lost someone, went through a financial loss and lost a lot of his equipment to do handiwork and home repair, and is just working part time retail jobs, working as much as he can or needs to in order to get by.
He has been deliberating over whether he should invest in rebuilding his side business and continue on doing landscaping and home repair, or do something new and move on, and is struggling with deciding what will make him more happy.
On one hand, time passes no matter what you do; 4-5 years retraining, developing a new skill, building a new business or starting a new vocational program seems like a long time. But in 5 years (at least when you're our age) it will feel like that time has gone by in a flash and if you don't use it, it's kind of squandered. The issue with this is that he doesn't want to start all over at his age, which I can't fault, and doesn't want to be tied down to any place or thing, and is thinking of moving somewhere warmer, picking up odd jobs and more retail work to get a foothold somewhere else, somewhere the grass looks greener, somewhere he can spend more time outdoors and in the sun (we have brutal long winters - he's done snow removal as a side job, too).
On the other, leveraging the skills you already have can be a great launching point and might be the easiest place to start. The problem is that he is struggling with how to move forward this way alone. He has had business partners, friends, and family in the past to help, each in their own way or role, and right now is finding himself without the connections he used to have to know where to begin. He has also lost most if not all of his equipment and would need to borrow, or invest practically all of his savings into restarting a side business that has fallen by the wayside and hasn't been generating income or clientele for over a year now.
In my life I've learned, and sometimes I feel like saying, sometimes you just have to pick something and buckle down. Pull the trigger. Make compromises and sacrifices. Things he seems apprehensive to do, and he has been really in his head about finding the "perfect" thing or what will make him the most happy.
That's not how life works, through the trials I've learned. I feel like at some point in everyone's life they have to admit to themselves "I am not superman/supergirl, I'm never going to be a [neurosurgeon, corporate attorney, CEO], and these are the skills I have, the talents I have developed, and the things I enjoy. So option A, B, or C, requires some compromise, sacrifice, and letting go of other dreams, but you either act, or do nothing.
I want to say something supportive, and don't want to come across as harsh, or judging. I realize that inner monologue even though it's self talk comes across to other people, often, as critical or insensitive. My life experience brought me there and it doesn't feel harsh to me. I know that isn't the right way to say it to this one, specific person, though.
What on earth do you say? How do you help inspire, and support someone? What are you supposed to do when someone *is in fact* asking for advice, and isn't ready to move one way or another... for a relatively long period of time?
2023.05.31 17:09 ThrowRA_3M I (25M) want to trust my gf (21F) but my gut tells me something is not right.
We've been together for 5 months now, during the second month, we were watching pictures on our phones, and she wanted to show me a picture of the time she lived in another country, while she was looking for it, a picture of her and a guy she used to date appeared. She didn't react in any suspicious way, all she said was "If you want to know anything about it, just ask", first time this happened to me so I said I was ok with it (stupid me).
Fast forward to this week and I was looking through her pictures on Instagram, I usually leave a comment on them and I really like my comments so I was watching them, saw other comments and clicked on a profile that left a comment on a picture of her, I immediately recognized the face and she followed him, not going to lie I checked the profile, none of his recent pictures had her likes so I didn't think about it a lot.
However, I asked her about the picture I saw the first time on her phone and asked why did she still have it, she told me she just forgot to delete it and he doesn't mean anything to her and I trusted her. Yesterday, dumbass me again, checked his profile and 3 recent pictures of him had her likes. It really bothered me and I confronted her, her response was again that he didn't mean anything, he told me their story, they dated for a month and a half, he asked for sex and she broke things off, she told that I'm being toxic and she won't unfollow or remove the likes. What bothered her the most was that I mentioned that I had to unfollow my ex gf in order to date her (I was in a previous relationship of 4+ years, I would never cheat on my gf or talk as friends with my ex).
I am not bothered about the likes or the follow, but being Instagram I know that if a picture doesnt appear on your feed during the first 3-5 days, it most probably won't appear again so my gut tells me that she went into his profile and liked those pictures, she denied it and named another friend of mine as example, saying that his pictures sometimes appear and she likes them too, I believed her and everything was ok yesterday.
Well I don't know if this is toxic or not but I checked that friend's profile and none of his pictures have her like. At this moment I was already home and I haven't talked to her about it, but I am seeing her today and don't know if I should bring it up again, because if I'm using someone as a example that I like his/her pictures for no reason, the I'm 100% sure about it.
What I want to ask today is for her to look me straight to my face and tell me that she didn't look for his profile and liked those pictures. I'm not afraid of being cheated on, or losing her, I trust her when she says that it doesn't mean anything, but I know what I saw the first time on his profile and the second time, I just don't want to be lied to.
Is it the best thing to confront her again today, after we just talked about it yesterday or just let it be and see what happens?
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Fast forward to this week and I was looking through her pictures on Instagram, I usually leave a comment on them and I really like my comments so I was watching them, saw other comments and clicked on a profile that left a comment on a picture of her, I immediately recognized the face and she followed him, not going to lie I checked the profile, none of his recent pictures had her likes so I didn't think about it a lot.
However, I asked her about the picture I saw the first time on her phone and asked why did she still have it, she told me she just forgot to delete it and he doesn't mean anything to her and I trusted her. Yesterday, dumbass me again, checked his profile and 3 recent pictures of him had her likes. It really bothered me and I confronted her, her response was again that he didn't mean anything, he told me their story, they dated for a month and a half, he asked for sex and she broke things off, she told that I'm being toxic and she won't unfollow or remove the likes. What bothered her the most was that I mentioned that I had to unfollow my ex gf in order to date her (I was in a previous relationship of 4+ years, I would never cheat on my gf or talk as friends with my ex).
I am not bothered about the likes or the follow, but being Instagram I know that if a picture doesnt appear on your feed during the first 3-5 days, it most probably won't appear again so my gut tells me that she went into his profile and liked those pictures, she denied it and named another friend of mine as example, saying that his pictures sometimes appear and she likes them too, I believed her and everything was ok yesterday.
Well I don't know if this is toxic or not but I checked that friend's profile and none of his pictures have her like. At this moment I was already home and I haven't talked to her about it, but I am seeing her today and don't know if I should bring it up again, because if I'm using someone as a example that I like his/her pictures for no reason, the I'm 100% sure about it.
What I want to ask today is for her to look me straight to my face and tell me that she didn't look for his profile and liked those pictures. I'm not afraid of being cheated on, or losing her, I trust her when she says that it doesn't mean anything, but I know what I saw the first time on his profile and the second time, I just don't want to be lied to.
Is it the best thing to confront her again today, after we just talked about it yesterday or just let it be and see what happens?