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Juliana news, and a place to gush for fans of her work.
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2023.05.31 17:31 bunnykelp [21/F] Hey, I’m Kitty. Wanna have deep in depth conversations?
Hey, I’m a woman with way too much free time on her hands. I spend the majority of my time indoors. My routine kind of looks like this if you’d like a glimpse into my daily life: Wake up at 4, due to my meds causing a stir in my brain. Stay up reading until 8. Walk the dogs and cats at 10, and go skating somewhere around then. I also tend to get up to roof yoga when the weather is nice. Though, I wouldn’t completely be opposed to doing it when it’s raining. I just prefer sunnier days, though my disposition may say otherwise. I’m much happier in person or on phone, promise.. which is something we can work up to when the time is right. I love hearing voices, it tends to make me squeal with happiness.
With that having been said, please no flirting or ill intentions, I’m a married woman. But I don’t mind having male best friends so I can grab onto the drapes of our (you and I, that’s our secret hideout) ginormous windows and complain to you about how housewifing is so difficult. Woe is me woe is me etc etc etc.
I listen to all types of music. But my favourite tends to be Bon Iver because his voice is incredible to my senses. And you can’t tell me “he’s not a type of music” because he definitely is, just look at him. inserts picture here. Yeah, see?
I’m a ballet dancer by day, and an avid lover of classical literature by night. I can talk about books and my growing collection of Shakespearean plays all day long. The plot of many (inside and out) and name a few that I adore. Won’t mention it here though, because what’ll we have to talk about then?
Come say hi, and we can talk about any and everything under the sun. Hablo tres idiomas, y este es uno de ellos. < decode that without the aid of AI or Google and I’ll give you a picture of something special to me.
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2023.05.31 17:31 Sharinganprincess91 [F4M] Fandom Roleplay. Looking for more partners. (Still looking)
Side note: I've added a password, so read carefully. If you message me WITHOUT the password, your messages are automatically IGNORED. tired of getting hit up with people who don't read 😒. It's ridiculous cause I've ignored 5+ chats cause none of them contained the password. Things are written for a reason.
Facts about me:
- I have been roleplaying since 2012. Yes, I got experience under my belt, and yes, my ideas usually have really long reads, but don't let that scare you off! After the starter is off, I may lower myself down to a decent paragraph or two, sometimes three! It all depends on what I've got to work with.
- My timezone is EST. I'm awake from 9am - 2am and I'm usually free unless I'm busy doing house chores, out of the house, asleep, or playing video games on my switch. I'm usually become REALLY active at or around 8pm.
Rules:
1: if you don't like 50/50 mixture of sex scenes and story, don't bother hopping into my inbox. I'm fine with sex scenes, but when it's constantly back to back, the roleplay itself gets boring.
2: Be literate. No one liners. I like to write..it's annoying when I send a 2-3 paragraph response and I get 3 lines...just...no. I am not accepting people who are just starting out! If you aren't experienced in writing or roleplaying, kindly stay out of my inbox.
3: Be okay with playing canon characters. I'm mainly doing fandom roleplays right now and it's going to be Canon x my oc. No, I'm not doing double ups. Do not even ask, because the answer will be no every time. I do not give a shit if you think that makes me 'lazy' or 'selfish', if you've got a problem, you can simply ignore or block me. Commenting on my post to bitch and whine about me not doubling up will only result in me blocking you. The ONLY time I'll double up, and if I'm confident enough, I'll only do female characters. I suck at males. Got a problem? Not my issue. Block and move on.
4: Roleplay in third person. I can't and won't adapt to first. Don't even bring up the idea of you playing first person and me playing third. Believe it or not, I've been asked this twice and that is just a hell no for me. The only time I do first, is when I'm writing into my book.
5: if you don't know how to share ideas, then don't bother messaging me. I'm tired of carrying the story when the other person doesn't help. If you've got ideas, then PLEASE speak up! Your opinion on the roleplay matters too! I'm an easy going person, and easy to get along with (dispite my rules).
6: DO NOT control my character. I control what she says, does, hears, sees, ect. I don't control yours, so don't control mine. HOWEVER, if it's highly necessary and needed, then run it by me first and ask me. Just leave me some wiggle room so I can make a decent response. Failure to comply by this rule, results in immediate drop of the rp.
End Note:
Yes, I've updated my rules just a tad. I do not care if it makes me sound mean or rude, because I'm neither of these things. I'm just tired of putting these rules down for a specific reason and they go ignored because I can tell when someone hasn't read them, and lied about it. I'm just trying to get my point across and roleplay. I'm a very easy going person who loves to make friends on the side (which I've somewhat given up on making friends...only a selective few have actually gained my friendship).
Do not hop into my inbox with a simple 'hey' 'hi' 'sup', etc and for God's sake, don't message me with a 'rp?'and proceed me to flash me with your talliwhacker. I promise you, you'll get your feelings hurt and I'll be here laughing at ya 😂. Nobody wants a peen on their screen. Do not send me an image of your one eyed noodle. Thank you. The password is pineapple.
Fandoms & Pairings
Deadpool (Wade x my oc)
The Adam's family
Pokemon ((MAYBE. Don't be nasty about it either!))
Bridgerton (or something like it. Can be Oc x Oc)
Disney Decedent's (or anything Disney) (oc x oc)
Orange is the new black (this can be oc x oc).
Criminal Minds (REALLY wanna do)
Marvel:
Loki x my oc
Spiderman (Tom Holland) x my oc
Dog The Bounty Hunter (REALLY wanna do):
Dog Chapman x my oc
The walking dead (REALLY wanna do!!):
Daryl X my oc
Batman x my oc
Lucifer (Netflix show series) x my oc (really wanna do)
The Originals: Klaus x my oc (PLEASE !! I REALLY wanna do this one!)
American Horror Story: Tate x my oc (REALLY wanna do)
Dragon Ball Z - Super (vegeta x my oc) (really wanna do)
Naruto: Minato x my oc
Harry Potter (thanks to the wonderful world of rp, the characters will be 18 or older. For me, I'd like it if it was Draco x my oc. REALLY wanna do)
Game Of Thrones (I'm still very early in the show, but I think we could think of something!)
Once Upon A Time:
killian x my oc, REALLY wanna do 🥺.
Avatar the last Airbender:
Zuko x my oc
Twilight:
Jacob x my oc
(Course, our version will be alot better than the movies).
If any of these interests you, message me!
End note part 2:
Congratulations! You've made it to the end. Still interested? You've got the password. Message me and let's get started 😁.
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2023.05.31 17:30 Aquatik07 What difficulty should I play Aeterna Noctis on?
I just bought Aeterna Noctis on sale. I'm not the biggest fan of combat in this kind of games but I absolutely love platforming and puzzles, which is what offers the hard mode but I don't really want harder fights, I just want to enjoy the puzzles and platforming. It says that I can change the difficulty throughout the game, so should I play in normal, in hard or put it on hard and change it to normal in combat sections? Also, if there are any tips for beginners I should know, I'd appreciate it if you let me know.
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2023.05.31 17:30 welp_im_damned Sony Xperia xz2 premium retrospective: how I learned to love the hump ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) pt1
Note this was written a few months ago, I tried to update the relevant information. so sorry if some stuff is a bit outdated.
Intro: So I got this phone from a friend of mine to mess around with. It's the Japanese au model. I was wondering how this phone felt like being used since it's such a quirky phone even for 2018 standards.
Software: The software on the Sony is quite stockish with some weird omissions. Some quirks I noticed with it is that it uses horizontal app drawer, the three button navigation but no gestures support (my understanding is that some google was late with gesture support for android oems on android 10) , and no fingerprint sensor gesture to swipe down for notifications. But overall it's fine and really didn't lag for what I was using it for media consumption
Hey at least I can put our lord and savior the android turtle on the AOD (and not the android 8 to 10, that was a sin against duARTe)
my main gripe with the software is with Sony support of it. So their official support with google play services is 2 os updates and 3 years of security updates.
BUT
They have this thing called Sony developers world and they updated the phones with new linux kernels and the new android versions of asop. I thought this died out in 2015/2016 or something due to the 810/808 #neverforget
BUT NO!
Its still alive and its updated by the Sony devs (The model I have at least). Now I understand that people who don't work for Sony contribute to github and such so they may not be able to use it for an actual update since they would need to pay people for that work. But they update the linux kernel for their phones that they don't technically support anymore. But how much would it cost to actually support the device for 4 to 5 years even if it's only security updates. Since you have actually Sony devs working on this and being paid for it.
Now if there is someone at Sony reading this please don't kill this project. Since its a very cool thing you're doing. But can you put the extra money and push these updates with the Sony blobs/google play services.
Open Devices - Open Devices - Sony Developer World
Display/Audio: I can see why companies like Sony and LG still held on to ips in 2019, especially comparing it to my Pixel 2 xl display and man I just now realized how bad it was if you're not Samsung/Apple or LG post v30.
The 4k display is cool and it didn't seem to take too much battery. It was comparable to my Pixel 2 xl or 7 pro sot (wifi only). I assume this is due to Sony downscaling the output to 1080p for anything that isn't rendered in 4k like 1080p videos. They do have a video image enhancement, but I disabled it since Youtube’s 1080p looked over sharpened. What I expected to be a pain point is its brightness. But it never seemed like an issue to me. Maybe because I expected to be unusable from all the comments on
android and YouTube videos saying Sony displays are very dim.
Overall I think its a fine display ,maybe a bit below the average for its time but still perfectly usable.
The speakers. What can I say? I love my front-facing speakers. They are slightly quieter compared to my Pixel 2 xl but they don't sound as tinny. Shame that only the new xperia and gaming phone still have front facing speakers.
The phone also had Sony's dynamic vibration. My understanding was that it’s a woofer of some (I'm probably wrong) It's a bit gimmicky but I enjoyed it when watching movies. Plus the motors are large, which gives stronger haptic feedback which I enjoy. An example of that was when receiving a phone call. Since the buzz has a distinct pattern.
The main downside to Sony’s audio setup on this phone is there being no headphone jack. Which is ironic since they brought it back like two years later, When everyone else removed theirs.
Camera: The photos aren't bad but I will have a more in depth writing/video on it soon compared to my Pixel 2 xl/ Pixel 7 pro for part 2.
The photos were acceptable imo. Maybe like 1 step behind generally but overall still usable.
But as mr mobile said in his review for the xz premium “The smartphone that can almost stop time” This has been the most fun feature I used on this phone or any phone period and its great. I wish Sony would introduce it again and at 4k instead of 1080p. It's an experience I can't describe other than life changing.
It made me come around slow mo on phones for once. But that only lasted for .09 seconds.
Also it has a camera shutter button which is nice. Also the AU model I had I couldn't turn off the shutter sound. Which is annoying. Also while it can take the photos fast the processing on them is slow and when you half press to focus the image quality in the preview degrades. But the photo itself is fine.
Design: it’s something only a mother could love or it’s trying to cosplay a turtle shell or what Sony calls ambient flow. I think it feels nice. But the finger sensor placement sucks. I understand why they did it while they still tried to compete in the U.S. market. But due to the placement I would always put my finger on the camera glass instead of the sensor. If they had pushed the camera up or actually put the sensor in the power button it would also be less of an issue. Also it’s very heavy, I would prefer it to use the lumia plastic so it can be lighter. Also with the added thickness it seemed wasted, not a larger battery or sensor used. My Pixel 7 pro with the camera bump is thinner than the xz2 premium. Overall This design feels it's better for smaller phones like the xz2 compact. But I do wonder if Sony will ever go back to this design. I think they can use the space more efficiently now by using multi layered PCBs and larger sensors on something like the xz2 compact.
Comparing it to phones then and now: At the time this was a unique phone that had its ups and down. But being released one month before the GOAT of smartphones of its time, Samsung Note 9 (peak Note imo) was a death sentence at its msrp of 1k usd. It was competing against a Samsung that actually gave a shit about it being the Thinkpads of phones with no cost cutting and not the Apple of android that feels cheaper but costs as much as an iphone. Or a pre-baned huawei that was lighting a fire on everyone's ass with its innovations.
Comparing it with phones now. I honestly prefer the xz2 premium. Maybe because I have nostalgia for phones from the 2016-2019 era. Maybe because of my frustration with new phones offer less like removal of hardware features like the headphone jack and expandable storage, shittier cameras due to over processing bullshit in the west (excluding Vivo and Xiaomi) because they cant figure out how to do less processing on these big sensors, same or worse performance from the last two years (fuck you Qualcom/Samsung fab). The only objectively better thing we have gotten are screens But thats it. It really feels like on the flagship level oems are trying to appeal to the lowest common denominator, like the base iphone. But a 400 dollar midrange android will do that perfectly, like a Pixel A or Samsung A5x or Oneplus Nord series.
I find it ironic that Sony and Asus are the only phone brands that haven't turned their flagship phone into the lowest common denominator by creating their own niches, while everything else in the flagship range are fighting for the same general consumer.
But hey at least in 2023 I have some hope. We have vivo and xiaomi showing the power of the 1 inch sensor. The s23u being what the s22u should have been with a good soc, Oneplus being going back to its roots, Sony hopefully not having their mk5 generation of phones over heat again after two minutes of recording (looks like that with early hands on), and Asus not turning me into their sales rep because the my Zenfone 9 megathread was the first thing you found about its release date, when you google searched the damn phone for the first few months.
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2023.05.31 17:30 Temporary-Falcon-945 My baby passed away yesterday. I feel devastated. Give your pets a little extra love every chance you get
2023.05.31 17:30 Muziclvr Quest for divorced dads
Hi! I met someone 3 months ago online. He had been separated for 18 Months and living on his own for the past year before we met. When we met I asked how ready he was for a relationship? He was moving very fast, he told me he loved me week 2. We really do have a very amazing connection. His divorce was finalized about a month ago. Last week he started getting distant and this past weekend he said he is having feelings he didn’t expect about the divorce. He told me he wanted to pull back. He still wants to see me, but more casually. I asked if it was over, he said no, but that I should date other people. I asked if that’s what he wanted and he said no. He just needs to focus on himself. He is a dad of two boys and has a complicated custody arrangement. I have never put any pressure on him to see him and accommodated his schedule which he has always appreciated.
How long did it take you to get over your divorce? Is this normal that he is having these feelings now after telling me he wanted this?
I’m giving him his space and I’m not going to wait around, but am just curious if he’s just “breaking it to me gently” or if this is a legitimate feeling. (I’m not your typical needy woman! I’m pretty great and have my shit together. It’s just been a while since I’ve clicked with someone this well this quickly that I want to be sure I’m doing the right thing walking away).
Thanks!
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2023.05.31 17:30 klaus_schulze_fan Some evidence of what I've suspected all along: online dating has always sucked
Yes, we love to hate apps. Yes, we love to say that the pre-Tinder era was some golden age. Well, I've always wondered about that. It was still hard for me to get a woman's attention even when OKCupid was good, and I always doubted I was alone in that opinion.
Well, there's a very interesting comment to a
New York Times article about dating app fatigue by someone who was active 20 years ago during the Craigslist personals era. I wonder if you can spot any similarities between then and now....
Uh.... welcome to what it is like to be a man on dating sites. I will start by saying I am a happily married man of 20 years. But I met my wife on Craigslist and back then, and I assume now, being a male trying to get ANY women to respond was almost impossible. There were simply too many men who were responding to female ads. I had a female housemate at the time and all she had to do was put up an ad and BOOM- she got tons of responses. Granted a lot of them were pretty worthless but still- I always remember feeling jealous that she had a much easier time than I ever did. I eventually stopped responding to ads and put up 5-6 ads a week. I was lucky to get a single response in 2 weeks and usually that didn't pan out. So I get why Bumble was setup that way. It at least leveled the playing field a bit. So I'm sorry but this does take work.
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2023.05.31 17:29 tinydreamlanddeer Should I be disappointed with these ER results or am I being unrealistic?
Just had my first ER - I'm 32F with an AMH of 1.43 doing IVF for RPL (5 miscarriages due to balanced translocation, one live birth). We got 10 eggs, 6 mature, 6 fertilized. ER was on day 14, triggered with Lupron and Pregnyl, and we did Zymot.
I'm a travel patient with CNY and received almost no information throughout stims about the number and size of my follicles and what to expect. I know that 10-15 is the number that many doctors aim for in terms of quality, but starting on Day 1 with 6 just feels extremely bleak to me. My BT is expected to wipe out 80% of whatever we're able to biopsy, and on top of that, I also need to do PGT-M. We are self-pay so unlimited retrievals isn't an option.
Is this just par for the course, or am I right in feeling like 6 mature is low and we can do better next round? I'm going right into another retrieval whenever my period returns probably next week, and requested an appointment to discuss protocol shifts so I'd love to go in with some ideas of what to ask for. Thank you!!
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2023.05.31 17:29 ResistingEuphoria said goodbye to a friend today
bye!
its rare to find a friend here on reddit especially if hubadera ka. im not saying platonic kami kasi haller hubadera nga, but he was a breath of fresh air from the manyaks in my DM. he asks and never demands. may kulit factor but when i need someone to talk to about life, he's here to listen, i want say i did the same, pero i was less than stellar of a friend.
PSSST! I am really happy for you! I hope everything works out with her. you deserve to be loved and cared for the same way you give. tandaan! 100% FULL EFFORT EVERYTIME!
and i promise if you need anything, andito ako as a friend na, no longer thw crushie! 😉
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2023.05.31 17:29 lone_jew Career change: Chemist to Data Scientist
I work at a large chemical company and have a MS Chemistry degree but don’t love what I do currently. I was recently admitted into Georgia Tech’s MS Data Analytics program (OMSA) starting this Fall and I’ve taken a few boot camps in both Python and R. I’m trying to make this transition into DS before I complete the program, which will likely take 3 years.
I’ve already started a side project at work for which I’ve been using R to analyze large data sets that have not yet been cleaned or analyzed. I’m not being paid extra for this project but I’m trying to show some initiative since there are no other data scientists in my division and would like to be one of the first by carving my own path.
Has anyone else done something similar and how did it work out for you?
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2023.05.31 17:29 Muziclvr Quest for divorced dads
Hi! I met someone 3 months ago online. He had been separated for 18 Months and living on his own for the past year before we met. When we met I asked how ready he was for a relationship? He was moving very fast, he told me he loved me week 2. We really do have a very amazing connection. His divorce was finalized about a month ago. Last week he started getting distant and this past weekend he said he is having feelings he didn’t expect about the divorce. He told me he wanted to pull back. He still wants to see me, but more casually. I asked if it was over, he said no, but that I should date other people. I asked if that’s what he wanted and he said no. He just needs to focus on himself. He is a dad of two boys and has a complicated custody arrangement. I have never put any pressure on him to see him and accommodated his schedule which he has always appreciated.
How long did it take you to get over your divorce? Is this normal that he is having these feelings now after telling me he wanted this?
I’m giving him his space and I’m not going to wait around, but am just curious if he’s just “breaking it to me gently” or if this is a legitimate feeling. (I’m not your typical needy woman! I’m pretty great and have my shit together. It’s just been a while since I’ve clicked with someone this well this quickly that I want to be sure I’m doing the right thing walking away).
Thanks!
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2023.05.31 17:29 OperativeTX Praying for guidance with career
Thank you for reading this- I recently resigned my state job that I loved immensely due to fear of retaliation. I’m still so confused, angry and saddened by what happened. I can find no wrong doing on my part that would lead to termination by the agency. It’s a case management job and the management felt I did not ask right questions etc. Me, a coworker. And long term supervisor all were disciplined and now gone. I don’t know if I should reapply at my old job which was very stressed case management work and sometimes toxic work environment. They need help. I can ride this out a while in terms of finances but the lack of control and structure in my life is agonizing. I prayed to leave my formal job and found this job - which is now taken from me. I am applying for various jobs in my field. Please pray for peace in my heart and mind. Please pray God’s favor would abound and I would see His direction.
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2023.05.31 17:29 br1ck_city4 Newest gen owners help!
I went to test drive an Integra yesterday and absolutely fell in love with it. The dealership that helped me was great to me and let me do anything I wanted with the car. I was initially looking for a Civic SI, but I can’t find any without ridiculous markup. I asked about ordering from the factory and was told it takes up to 8 months.
All told, the car is right at the very tippy top of where I feel comfortable with owning the car financially assuming I get it around MSRP. Can you all give me some advice on buying? Did you order or buy straight from a dealership? What was your experience like? Do you have any issues with the car?
Please be as honest as possible. I feel like I fell too far in love with this car and may be making a biased decision. Thanks!
TLDR: Was looking for SI, but can’t find one without markup. Fell in love with Integra, is it worth the price difference? How is your owner’s experience?
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2023.05.31 17:29 OneMoney7832 19 F4A Looking for karma. After you upvote and comment on my posts send me a DM and I will like all yours. Love youl!!
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2023.05.31 17:29 CactusMike95 Cactus Mike on the Tin Man
(Mike stands in front of a record player as it begins to play Brooks & Dunn - My Maria (Official Video)) This is an odd situation I’m in. Normally, I’m facing some shitty human being who hasn’t committed any heinous crimes. Aside from Krusty most of my opponents don’t have a criminal record. Well the Tinman does. He murdered someone he promised to love and that makes me sick. I don’t give a rat's ass if she was cheating on you. You could have said something dumbass.
(Mike grabs a badge off of a shelf behind him) So this Friday, Cactus Mike is the law. You should have been punished long before now. You aren’t going to get out this like you have time and time before. Usually I have some sort of respect for my opponent but I have none for you. When you go to the Casino this week say goodbye to all of those pretentious jackasses. And when they ask “why are you sad Vik” you say “Because my ass belongs to Cactus Mike!”
(A doorbell is heard, disrupting the music) (Mike walks through the house where a digital clock now reads applause) (Mike opens the door to reveal ……APE who stands there for 8 seconds as applause fills the room. Mike looks confused.) Ape: DAD!!!!
(Ape gives Mike a big hug and behind Mikes back he clicks pause on his phone) The screen then goes black reading To Be Continued Mike: WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON.
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2023.05.31 17:29 ThrowRA5462 My (32M) girlfriend (36F) lied about her past to me. How do we move forward? Should we, even?
We have been dating for 5 months now. She has/had a friend of 3 years whom she claimed was her best friend. They went on a trip out of the country together. They used to hang out a lot and she would confide in him emotionally/vice versa.
I have had a bad feeling about this guy from day one. That there was way more than just a platonic friendship between them like she claimed. We even had arguments about this as I told her I'm not comfortable with her continuing to talk to him. She said that she was being very cold with him and scaling back the friendship out of respect for me, but had no problem telling me how controlling and insecure I was acting.
Well, few nights ago, she drops the bomb on me. She tells me that this guy was her FWB. She told me that they had sex over 40 times since she has met him. She was sobbing in tears telling me that she was so afraid of losing me if she told me, which is why she lied to me. She said that the guilt of lying to me has been tearing her apart inside.
After she told me about it, I made it clear to her that there needs to be hardcore boundaries now if trust is ever to be rebuilt. I told her to cut him out of her life completely, remove him on all social media, and never speak to him again. She fully agreed. I told her that if there are any other past "friends" who she had a sexual history with, she needs to tell me now. She admitted there was one other guy who she hooked up with that she exchanges memes with every now and then. She informed me that she will also remove him from her life.
I am so torn and beyond hurt. This is a woman who made it very clear to me how much she hates lying and liars. I am now speculating whether or not there is more I don't know and how faithful she is. She swears up and down, through tears and genuine heartfelt apologies, that this is the only lie and she has never cheated on a person in her entire life. She is begging me to forgive her and not leave her.
She also lied about how she met him. She said "Through mutual friends" and the answer was very vague and suspect. Turns out, she met the guy on Tinder. Shocker.
She also said that she believes this guy caught feelings for her after their trip out of the country (a month before we met) and that she was scaling back the friendship even before me anyway because she did not reciprocate the feeling. Yet she continued texting him while we were together in the early stage of our relationship and even hung out twice (once for a drink, once for a hike). She claims nothing happened on those two events.
I told her I need time and space to think about this. I made it clear to her that the trust is broken and I don't know if it can be re-established.
What do I do here? Have I been too hard on her? Is this an honest mistake out of fear of judgment/losing someone? The fact that she came clean with me about it, I do feel that that is a respectable thing. It's not like she ever HAD to tell me about it.
I love her, she has a ton of positive qualities. She is madly in love with me. The chemistry and sparks are there and have never faded, but my view of her has changed and I am now wary of her. I forgave a few lies in my previous marriage and ended up being cheated on in the end. I don't know if this untrusting feeling will ever fade, and the revealed promiscuity of her past has shattered my image of her.
She was someone who told me that sex shouldn't be had with "just anyone" and needs a romantic connection to feel good. Now I find out she was having sex with a guy regularly who she never had romantic feelings for.
In my own defense, I made it very clear to her: The problem is not that she had a FWB in the past. Had this been revealed to me in the beginning it wouldn't have been a problem. The issue here is that I was lied to for nearly half a year, and we had multiple nights ruined over arguments relating to this guy because my gut was screaming at me that something didn't add up.
TL;DR: Girlfriend and I have been dating 5 months. Was nervous about a particular guy friend from the beginning. Was told I was being insecure and controlling by voicing my discomfort about him due to gut instincts. She admitted to me that he was a FWB for the last 3 years. Said she lied because she was afraid of me judging her and dumping her. Apologized profusely and told me it is the only lie she has told me, begging me not to leave. Said she has never been unfaithful once in her life and doesn't cheat. Don't know how to move forward or rebuild trust.
Thanks for any advice you all can offer.
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2023.05.31 17:28 vladcomp Deferred error wrapping
Anyone else using this pattern. Put this line at the top of any func/method and if you run into any errors return them as is. They get wrapped with the context of the function. No need to worry about stack traces. I've used custom error types in the past, but I just started using this pattern and am loving its simplicity.
defer func() { err = errors.Wrap(err, "unable to retrieve user") }()
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2023.05.31 17:28 Muriamermex Friendly Goodbye
I stayed up late, again. Another night waiting for a random knock on my door. Do I like staying up? Yes and no. I like staying up to occasionally binge watch a series. However, my reasons now are mentally and emotionally draining.
My gentle giant of a dog can’t protect me from you. My golf club could probably do some damage. That if I manage to grab it in time.
Why couldn’t this break-up be easier? We have no children or shared assets. I know you love my dogs, their my fur babies. I will not give you my dogs you asshat!
l’m going bananas here. Would you please leave me alone? I don’t want to file a TRO but your acting like a 730. I really don’t feel comfortable in my own home anymore.
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2023.05.31 17:28 SwimmingDragonfly558 M4A Historical RP
Hello! It's very good to meet you. I am an European roleplayer based in BST, although I dont mind what timezone my partners have. I'm quite busy with work, so I don't expect rapid responses as I wouldn't be able to do them myself. I am Semi Literate however I can also mirror what my partner does. I am looking for someone 18+ please due to comfort reasons. I roleplay on reddit or discord.
I don't have any specific plots in mind, although I have a few brief ideas. I love to brainstorm ideas. As mentioned, I am looking for a historical RP. Please be warned that due to the gritty nature of some of the genres listed, there may be some more darker elements of RP or violence. However, I am sure that we can work it all out before we start the role play.
The plots that interest me:
Ancient Rome
Vikings
Medieval Europe (Non Fantasy)
Colonial History
Napoleonic History
Victorian/Regency
Pirates
WW1
WW2 These are the main genres that interest me, however there may be a few that i've forgotten. Therefore, if you have an idea of a genre you may want to do, please feel free to send me a chat and send any ideas you have.
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2023.05.31 17:28 Optimal-Bathroom-953 Multiple pictures 🤮
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2023.05.31 17:28 williamordnajela nice to meet you guys, just posting a pic from my Kid Icarus NES cartridge that i just received yesterday❤️ (i personally prefer the 3D Classics version for the improved controls XD but i really love this version aswell✌️)